As a dedicated school bus driver, I have a genuine affection for the children I transport daily. Their vibrant personalities and amusing comments bring joy to my work. However, the interactions with some parents can be challenging. Here are ten phrases that are best left unspoken when communicating with your child’s bus driver:
- “My child will never take the bus; it’s too unsafe.” School buses are engineered for safety, utilizing high, padded seats instead of seat belts to protect passengers. Statistically, your child is more likely to be in an accident while being driven to school by you. In a collision between a bus and a car, the bus typically sustains less damage to the area where kids are seated.
- “My child was bullied on the bus, and you did nothing.” While bullying does occur, we strive to address it. When a report is made, we take action against the offenders, which may include disciplinary measures. However, if your child does not report the issue, I may not be aware of it. With up to 77 kids on my bus, it’s nearly impossible to witness every incident.
- “Are you sure it was my child?” Yes, I am confident that your child, whom I have known since kindergarten, was involved in the incident. Multiple witnesses corroborate the story. As a responsible driver, I must document severe issues, which could result in temporary suspension from the bus.
- “Well, the other kids started it.” While I understand that conflicts can escalate, it doesn’t justify retaliatory behavior. Both children involved will face consequences; remember, two wrongs don’t make a right.
- “I know my kid can be a troublemaker.” Acknowledging your child’s behavior is a start, but as a parent, it’s crucial to take action. Encourage your child to improve their behavior; perhaps remind them that misbehavior can result in consequences like walking to school.
- “Why won’t you come to my house?” Various factors, including road safety and accessibility, prevent us from driving up private or difficult roads. We prioritize safe routes for turning around and transporting kids.
- “I apologize for being late.” While I appreciate the sentiment, your tardiness can delay all other students. I cannot drop younger children off at unsafe locations if a parent isn’t present.
- “I didn’t see you.” It’s surprising how often I hear this after someone drives past our flashing lights. The visibility of a school bus is designed to ensure safety; if you can’t see a large yellow vehicle with flashing lights, perhaps you shouldn’t be driving.
- “That wasn’t me who passed you.” We document the license plates of vehicles that disregard our stop signals. If you were driving a distinct car during the incident, it’s hard to deny involvement.
- “How do you manage to do your job without losing your cool?” Being a school bus driver is often underestimated. I appreciate the flexible hours and the opportunity to witness children grow up. Yes, there are challenging days, but moments like receiving a heartfelt card that says “You’re the best driver ever!” make it worthwhile.
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In conclusion, when communicating with your child’s bus driver, it’s essential to be mindful of your words. Positive and constructive dialogue fosters a better environment for everyone involved.