From a young age, Clara and I were often seen as the youthful couple among our peers. We started our journey together in our late teens, were the first to tie the knot, and even the first to (unexpectedly) welcome a child into our lives. “You’re just kids!” was a common refrain whenever we shared our ages, a sentiment that, in hindsight, was rather flattering. At times, we would even add a few extra years to our ages to sidestep those awkward interactions.
But then, everything changed.
Recently, after letting our kids curate the soundtrack for our summer road trip and exhausting our favorite playlist, I had a startling realization: my daughter, Emma, is now closer to 22 than I am. TWENTY-TWO. A time in my life filled with joy and freedom that doesn’t seem too distant… and yet, my own child is nearing that age? Well, thanks for the rude awakening, music industry.
This realization has lingered, prompting me to share the somewhat disheartening insights about aging. If I have to deal with this, it seems only fair that you do too. Isn’t that part of the blogging experience?
Prepare yourself for some revelations…
- The Nirvana baby? He’s now 21 and likely using his brief moment of fame to charm someone at a bar—where he can legally enjoy a drink.
- The iconic Ross and Rachel kiss that once brought you joy? That moment occurred 18 years ago. EIGHTEEN years.
- Tracks from Pearl Jam and Soundgarden have made their way to classic rock radio.
- Remember the phrase, “Did you know the human head weighs eight pounds?” While you might remember that, did you know that little Jonathan Lipnicki from Jerry Maguire has grown up to look quite different?
- Individuals born in 1997 can now drive legally.
- The album Blood Sugar Sex Magik was released 22 years ago. A child conceived during its debut could now be 21—possibly enjoying a drink with the Nirvana baby.
- The Challenger disaster happened 27 years ago.
- The kids you once babysat might now be married with children of their own.
- Johnny Depp has reached the age of 50.
- We’ve officially transitioned into adulthood. I apologize for the reality check.
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In summary, aging can be a difficult realization, but it’s also a part of life’s journey. Embracing these changes and sharing them with others can create a sense of community, making the experience just a bit easier.