Having previously taught middle school, I often receive surprised reactions when I mention the age group I worked with. Many exclaim, “How did you handle those moody adolescents?” The truth is, I genuinely enjoyed it. Although it presented its fair share of challenges, it was equally rewarding. Those students possessed the ability to engage in witty banter and hold deep discussions. Now that I’ve taken a step back to focus on my children for the past three years, I find myself missing the classroom dynamic. I know I will return to teaching one day. My time as an educator taught me invaluable lessons not only about teaching but also about leadership and interpersonal relationships, with my students offering me practical insights into parenting.
For many students, once the lesson concluded, they sought me out for comfort and support. Throughout each school year, there were always a few who turned to me for guidance, a listening ear, or simply a safe space to share their thoughts. Often, I became a maternal figure for those who felt they had no one else to confide in. I embraced various roles beyond that of an instructor, which helped me connect deeply with my students.
I often referred to my students as “my kids,” and the experience mirrored that of parenting. I educated them, enforced rules when necessary, provided support during difficult times, and offered a shoulder to lean on. Each year, as the school year concluded, I felt a mix of joy for their growth and sadness at their departure, watching them transition to high school.
After seven years of “training” with my students, I welcomed my first daughter. Here are five ways in which my teaching experience prepared me for motherhood:
1. Managing Attitudes
Having dealt with countless hormonal outbursts and uninterested students, I learned to navigate challenging behaviors. The disinterest my students sometimes displayed in lesson discussions is akin to my child’s reluctance to sit still for a hairbrush. A classroom full of 28 teenagers certainly readied me for the times my toddler loudly protests against a simple request in a public place.
2. Thinking on Your Feet
During a lesson on Anne Frank, I suddenly realized I had forgotten essential materials. Panic set in as the students waited expectantly. However, I quickly devised an alternative plan. This experience, among others, has proven invaluable when faced with unexpected situations, like when my preschooler insists on going to the park only for rain to disrupt our plans. Quick problem-solving is essential in both teaching and parenting.
3. Cultivating Patience
There were moments in the classroom that tested my patience immensely, whether it was dealing with disruptive behavior or adapting my teaching methods to suit varying comprehension levels. These experiences instilled in me a sense of calm that now serves me well in parenting, where similar challenges arise daily—often more than once an hour!
4. Repetitiveness
In the classroom, I often found myself repeating instructions to ensure comprehension, only to hear students exclaim in disbelief that a test was happening. As a mother, I experience similar frustrations, reminding my child repeatedly about small tasks. The struggle to be heard and understood is a common thread in both roles.
5. Inspiration for Future Names
Teaching has also influenced my thoughts on potential names for future children. Each year, I encounter unique names that I mentally catalog, while some names become associated with challenging behavior, causing me to reconsider their appeal. For example, a name I once adored can become tainted by memories of unruly students.
To my former students who have touched my life, thank you for the lessons you imparted, and for helping shape me into the mother I am today. For fellow educator moms, the last day of school brings mixed emotions. While you may be ready for a break from challenging students, remember that for some, you might be a significant source of support. Before the summer begins, consider offering a kind word or gesture; it could mean the world to them.
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In summary, my journey as an educator has profoundly influenced my approach to motherhood, equipping me with skills in patience, communication, and adaptability that are essential in raising my children.