Hello, Moms,
I hope this message finds you well. Can I interest you in a refreshing drink?
As someone who isn’t a mom yet—though that may change in the future—I want to share some insights that I believe could enhance our interactions. While discussions about the differences between moms and non-moms can often lead to heated debates, I’m here to share my perspective without confrontation. Here are five things I’d like you to understand about me:
1. I Don’t Dislike Your Children
Let me clarify: I genuinely do not harbor any disdain for your kids. Of course, there are moments—like when a child is running wild in a store—that test my patience. However, in general, I find children to be quite entertaining. Their candid remarks and innocent antics often bring a smile to my face.
2. I Enjoy Spending Time with Kids
While I don’t wish to be surrounded by children 24/7, I do find them to be delightful companions. For instance, nothing is more amusing than a toddler proudly displaying their new big kid underwear in a crowded place. I enjoy letting kids indulge in treats and play freely when they’re at my home—where the rules are quite relaxed. Just know that I am fully prepared for the eventual return of hyper kids back to you!
3. My Dog is Not a Substitute for Your Child
Yes, I adore my dog and often pamper him. However, please don’t mistake my affection for my pet as comparable to the bond between you and your child. I understand the significant responsibilities you have in raising a well-rounded individual, and that’s a different realm altogether.
4. I Want to Be Your Friend
It’s unfortunate to hear that some moms feel abandoned by their childless friends. If that’s the case, it’s likely those friendships lacked depth. Many of my friendships with moms blossomed post-baby, and I don’t consider motherhood a barrier to friendship. If I inadvertently suggest an outing that conflicts with your schedule, please let me know. I’m flexible and truly value our connection.
5. Your Baby Makes Me Nervous
I have to admit, I find infants a bit intimidating. Until they can sit up independently, I’d prefer to admire your little one from a distance. My anxiety stems from the fear of accidentally mishandling such a fragile being. So, I appreciate your understanding if I shy away from holding your newborn.
These are just a few thoughts I wanted to share. Now, how about that drink? You seem like you could use a cup of coffee, and I’d be happy to treat you.
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In summary, I hope this provides a clearer picture of my perspective as a non-mom. I look forward to nurturing our friendships and being a supportive part of your parenting journey.