In the realm of parenting literature, Ylonda Gault Caviness stands out as a prominent voice, especially with her memoir Child, Please: How Mama’s Old-School Lessons Helped Me Check Myself Before I Wrecked Myself. We recently had the opportunity to chat with Caviness, who shared insights into her life, including her impressive impersonation of Cookie from Empire and her surprising friendship with a certain morning show host.
What’s on Your Learning Wishlist?
“I’ve got my sights set on mastering a team sport—any sport, really,” Ylonda shares with enthusiasm. “I’m curious if there are middle-aged varsity teams, because I’m feeling quite confident these days.” Reflecting on her past, she humorously recalls being a bit of a dork due to her long limbs, but now, she believes she could excel at sports—if only she could find that perfect team.
Future Travel Plans?
When it comes to travel, Ylonda dreams of visiting a professional eyebrow stylist. “I’ve never had my brows done and it seems so luxurious,” she admits. Her admiration for Taraji P. Henson’s brows has inspired her to consider this pampering experience. Additionally, she hopes to take her children on an adventure to South Africa someday.
Who Deserves a Thank You Note?
Ylonda’s gratitude extends to her teachers, particularly one neighbor named Mr. Al, who unexpectedly shaped her childhood. “He organized a neighborhood parade for the Fourth of July, and I was hesitant to join, but he insisted. That experience made me feel welcomed in our new community,” she reminisces fondly.
Friday Night at 12?
Picture a young Ylonda, age 12, engrossed in Sanford and Son with her siblings. “We were watching on a black-and-white TV, and my older brother was fiddling with the antennas for the best reception. Afterward, I’d probably dive into our treasured Encyclopedia Britannica,” she laughs.
Mix Tape Memories
Ylonda recalls her first mix tape, created for her boyfriend, “Dollar Bill.” “It featured a lot of Earth, Wind & Fire tracks, and even some Phil Collins. I thought I was so sophisticated!” She proudly claims the title of mixtape queen, revealing her love for a smooth, romantic vibe.
That Family Story
Every family has that one story that gets retold a million times. For Ylonda, it’s the tale of her toddler self giving a cheeky gesture to Richard Nixon on TV. “I don’t even remember it, but it’s a family legend now,” she laughs, reflecting on how it made her grandfather proud.
Advice to Your Younger Self?
If Ylonda could speak to her 25-year-old self, she’d say, “You’re exactly where you need to be to get to where you’re going.” She adds a second piece of advice, “Stop worrying about your thighs! You’ll look back and wish you appreciated your body more.”
Culinary Expertise?
When it comes to cooking, Ylonda confidently declares, “My hot wings are unbeatable.” Thanks to her Buffalo roots, they’re crispy, flavorful, and have just the right kick. “There’s a secret to my preparation, but I can’t share it—let’s just say the Pioneer Woman might have some competition!”
Motto or Theme Song?
“Missy Elliott’s ‘Up Jumps da Boogie’ is my go-to anthem,” Ylonda declares. “It pumps me up for whatever the day brings.” She finds herself channeling Missy’s lyrics as a way to navigate life’s ups and downs.
Comfort Shows?
There’s something about watching the opening moments of Kelly and Michael that lights up Ylonda’s day. “I love their chemistry and feel like Kelly is my BFF in my head,” she shares, highlighting how their banter makes her feel connected to the joy of life.
Ylonda Gault Caviness continues to inspire many with her reflections on parenting, self-acceptance, and the importance of community. For those interested in furthering their knowledge on parenting and insemination, check out this resource or grab your own fertility booster from Make A Mom. And if you’re looking for more parenting insights, don’t miss out on this blog post.
In summary, Ylonda Gault Caviness is not only a stellar author but also a relatable figure who shares her parenting journey with humor and heart.
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