As we step into a new year, it’s common to set resolutions that often end up being abandoned within days, such as cutting down on snacks, limiting screen time, or swearing less. This year, however, I propose a different approach—one that focuses on achievable goals that can truly enhance our lives as parents.
First and foremost, I commit to lowering the expectations I place on myself. The past year was filled with both high points and challenges. Instead of savoring my personal achievements, I found myself in a constant comparison with others—always striving for the next big milestone. This led to a cycle of disappointment, as I never felt my efforts were sufficient.
My goal this year is to embrace a more relaxed perspective. I don’t need to write the next bestseller or embark on a massive tour. What I truly need is to take a step back, enjoy my journey, and simply lighten up. This philosophy applies not only to my writing endeavors but to all aspects of my life.
Additionally, I aim to master the valuable skill of saying “no.” There will be moments when I cannot alter my plans to assist with last-minute school activities. I may not have the capacity to chair that board I care about deeply, and I certainly won’t scramble to find a babysitter just for someone else’s convenience. If something doesn’t align with my priorities, I will say no without excessive apologies or second-guessing. Just a firm, clear no.
It’s essential for me to be gentler with myself and to recognize my limitations. This should not be an impossible feat. Of course, I’ll also focus on drinking more water—because hydration is key. I must allow myself space for mistakes and imperfections.
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In summary, the resolutions I am adopting this year center around self-acceptance and understanding my boundaries. By focusing on these aspects, I hope to create a more fulfilling and enjoyable parenting experience.