How to Train Your Toddler to Foster a Harmonious Living Environment

Guidelines for Sleep Training Your Child:

1. Discard any literature that prescribes methods for sleep training your child.
2. Politely decline to heed others’ suggestions regarding their sleep training experiences.
3. At bedtime, assist your child in putting on pajamas and settling into bed.
4. Bid them goodnight, express your affection, and turn off the lights.
5. In the morning, help them rise from bed.
6. During the day, if your child exhibits signs of becoming overly energetic, guide them to their bed for a nap. This could range from once to several times daily—when they’re a monster, it’s time for a nap.
7. Repeat as needed.

Instructing Your Child to Tidy Up Their Toys:

1. Prompt your child with, “Could you please pick up your toys now?”
2. If they do not respond, discreetly retrieve a garbage bag.
3. The child’s past experiences with you and the garbage bag will likely induce a sense of urgency, motivating them to clean up their toys swiftly.

Managing Toddler Tantrums:

1. When your child is on the floor in distress due to a minor issue, such as milk being poured on their cereal when that was precisely their request, engage with them.
2. Encourage them to amplify their reaction: “C’mon, you can be wilder! Yell louder! Let’s see those flails!”
3. If necessary, join them on the floor and mimic their behavior. This playful interaction often leads to laughter.
4. Once they’re calmed down, guide them back to their seat to resume eating.

Encouraging Politeness in Your Child:

1. Model polite behavior yourself.
2. Withhold assistance (such as fetching water or tying shoes) unless they exhibit politeness towards you.
3. Consistently repeat these actions countless times to instill the desired behavior.

Encouraging Acceptance of Family Meals:

1. Prepare a meal you enjoy for dinner.
2. Serve a smaller portion of the same meal on your child’s plate.
3. Consume your meal while they sit with theirs.
4. Clear their plate once dinner concludes. You’ll know dinner is over when their plate is empty or if they’ve succumbed to sleep at the table. Eventually, they may develop a taste for what you eat. However, I often resort to mac ‘n cheese due to a personal quirk that compels me to see them eat.

Potty Training Fundamentals:

1. Discontinue the use of diapers.
2. Demonstrate the appropriate bathroom location.
3. Be prepared to use a mop for any accidents.

Instilling Kindness in Your Child:

1. Simply be kind to them. That’s all it takes.

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In summary, these practical strategies can help you foster a more manageable and enjoyable living environment with your toddler. While parenting can often feel chaotic, consistency, humor, and kindness will guide you through the challenges.