As a medical professional, I have often encountered the belief that women become emotional due to pregnancy hormones or postpartum challenges. Initially, I was skeptical of this notion, thinking it was an oversimplification of complex emotional experiences. However, after the birth of my second child, I found myself experiencing an array of emotions, including crying for reasons I never anticipated.
While sleepless nights with a newborn and an early-rising toddler can certainly contribute to irritability, my tears often stemmed from unexpected and seemingly trivial moments rather than profound existential dilemmas about motherhood. Below are some of the lighter, hormone-induced reasons that have led me to tears since I welcomed my new baby.
- When my partner suggested tossing out the neglected package of hot dogs left unrefrigerated all day.
- Describing the poignant epilogue of Knuffle Bunny Free (which, in all fairness, is both beautiful and heart-wrenching).
- Reading an article about a cat that wandered away from home. (Honestly, any article involving children or animals tugs at my heartstrings.)
- Watching a Google commercial featuring a young girl overcoming her fear of public speaking. (Most commercials these days have a way of making me emotional.)
- Realizing I had lost the $5 I set aside for an iced coffee.
- Witnessing my baby laugh during a diaper change—such overwhelming cuteness!
- When my preschooler declared that I was not allowed to join in his play.
- Feeling nostalgic about missing my favorite NY1 segment, “In The Papers.”
- Upon waking, often overwhelmed by the day ahead.
- Discovering that my sandwich had been ruined by an excess of mustard.
- Watching a video where a baby cries at her mother’s singing, which is usually too relatable.
- Crying for no particular reason at all.
- Admiring my son’s artwork.
- Reflecting on the lyrics of “Landslide,” which always hits me hard.
- The joy of picking my son up from school.
- The shock of my son’s unfortunate haircut.
- Disliking my hair color, even though it hasn’t changed in years.
- Frustration when my DVR failed to record Project Runway: All Stars.
- Discovering that my cat had an accident under the bed.
- Feeling a wave of sadness during the Simpsons tribute to Mrs. Krabappel.
- Hearing about public figures facing health challenges, which is always difficult to process.
- Remembering my son’s affection for his favorite stuffed animal.
- Accidentally adding salt to my iced tea instead of sugar, a genuine disaster.
- Deleting an episode of Jack’s Big Music Show, which I can never recover.
- Realizing I hadn’t washed my slipper socks and had to wear regular socks in the chilly house.
- Reflecting on how fortunate I am to have my family.
These moments remind us that parenthood is a journey filled with highs and lows, some of which might seem trivial but are deeply felt. For more insights on parenting and emotional well-being, I encourage you to explore related resources, such as this informative article about home insemination or check out Make A Mom for expert advice on home insemination kits. The CDC also offers valuable information regarding pregnancy and assisted reproductive technology.
In summary, my experiences of crying since becoming a parent encompass a wide range of emotions, from joy to frustration to nostalgia. These moments serve as reminders of the profound impact of parenthood on our emotional states.