Dear advertising executives, television producers, and filmmakers,
As a woman nearing the end of her pregnancy, I feel compelled to address a significant issue with how pregnancy is often portrayed in media. The depiction of pregnancy as a purely radiant and joyous experience is misleading. While there are indeed beautiful moments, the reality encompasses a wider range of experiences that deserve to be acknowledged.
For instance, not long ago, I returned home after a routine appointment, only to be greeted by an unexpected wave of nausea that resulted in vomiting. To add to the embarrassment, I also experienced a loss of bladder control. This wasn’t a one-off incident; it’s become a routine part of my life. Coughing? A little leakage. Sneezing? More leakage. Bending over? You guessed it—more leakage. I find myself going through pants at an alarming rate, and while I have some pads from my pre-pregnancy days, they don’t exactly prepare me for the unpredictability of bodily functions during this time.
Exhaustion is another hallmark of pregnancy. I often feel so drained that it’s a struggle to complete basic tasks. It’s a challenge to balance normal responsibilities with the fatigue that comes with carrying a child. This fatigue is compounded by the emotional highs and lows. Recently, I watched a show finale that sent me into a spiral of tears—not just from the plot but also from a wave of unfocused anger and frustration. It’s a reminder that emotions can swing wildly during pregnancy.
This is the relatively smoother of my pregnancies. With my first child, I experienced relentless nausea that lasted the entire nine months. There are countless stories of expectant mothers becoming overwhelmed by emotions, sometimes oscillating between joy and anger.
The physical discomforts are numerous: body aches, health anxieties, worries about fetal movement, skin changes, and gastrointestinal distress that can feel alarming. This is just a glimpse of the challenges faced during pregnancy. While there are women who embrace the journey with joy, many others do so while navigating moments of tears and a constant undercurrent of worry.
To truly portray pregnancy in a realistic light, media should show the raw, unfiltered experiences: a pregnant woman sitting on the bathroom floor, overwhelmed by her situation, possibly covered in her own urine, crying over a trivial mishap. This is the authentic side of pregnancy, and it might not be glamorous, but it is relatable.
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In summary, while pregnancy can be a beautiful experience, it is also filled with challenges that are often overlooked. A more realistic portrayal in media would resonate with many women navigating this complex journey.