When expecting your first child, it’s common to invest in childbirth classes that educate both parents about the labor process and provide coping strategies for pain management. Among these strategies, Lamaze breathing is often the most recognized, frequently depicted in media as a go-to method for handling childbirth.
The essence of Lamaze breathing lies in its focus on breath control, empowering a laboring woman to manage the intense sensations of childbirth. While this concept sounds beneficial, my personal experience differed. Perhaps it was due to my choice to learn from a library’s DVD set rather than attending a formal class, but I found Lamaze techniques ineffective during my own labor. Despite having practiced various breathing methods through yoga and other movement classes, I discovered that no single technique could alleviate my discomfort when the moment arrived.
However, I have identified some unexpected benefits of Lamaze breathing techniques in everyday parenting scenarios:
- The instant your toddler strikes you during a time-out. Breathe.
- When your partner returns home and questions why your day at home has led to a chaotic house. Breathe.
- When a grandparent gifts your child an obnoxiously loud toy, despite your clear request for restraint. Breathe.
- After a long day of physical closeness with your baby, only to have your partner express disappointment in the lack of intimacy. Breathe.
- When financial stresses mount with a sick child and substantial medical expenses looming. Breathe.
- In moments of overwhelm, draw your baby close, inhale deeply, and simply BREATHE. (And maybe consider a glass of wine afterwards.)
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In summary, while Lamaze breathing may not have served its intended purpose for everyone, it can be a valuable tool for navigating the everyday challenges of parenting. Learning to breathe through difficult moments can provide the calm needed to face parenting’s ups and downs with grace.