Several years ago, my friend Sarah Mitchell shared her eye-opening realization in her “Joyful Living” project: she has “almost zero enthusiasm for classical music.” I was taken aback because I assumed everyone had at least a passing interest in it. Yet, her honesty prompted a liberating thought: if she could openly dislike something so widely appreciated, what else could I admit to disavowing? Here’s my list of grown-up favorites that I just can’t get behind, and trust me, you don’t have to either.
1. You’re Not Obligated to Enjoy Theater.
Whether it’s a community production of “Death of a Salesman” or a Broadway extravaganza like “Wicked,” theater outings can be pricey and often drag on without a hint of humor, despite the audience’s exaggerated laughter. Most plays are tedious, musicals can feel cringeworthy, and let’s be honest—no one is thrilled to squeeze back into their seat post-intermission.
2. Fish Isn’t for Everyone.
Sure, fish is touted as a health food packed with omega-3s and lean protein, but honestly, it often tastes bland and leaves you longing for a juicy burger. The only acceptable fish is canned tuna or smoked salmon. Let’s face it, skate wing is only palatable when it’s swimming in butter. It’s perfectly fine to admit this.
3. Rock Concerts Aren’t a Must.
Once, I thought being in the middle of a crowd at a rock show was pure bliss. Now, I realize that seeing my favorite band live—whether in a massive arena where the lead singer is a mere dot on stage or a cramped nightclub waiting for the opening act—sounds more like a headache than a thrill. I’d much rather enjoy a concert on my couch, maybe with some popcorn and a good show.
4. Red Wine? No Thanks.
A beverage that’s served at room temperature? No, thank you. It’s either a means to get tipsy or a dreadful exercise in tasting notes like “leather” and “cigar smoke.” During my college years catering, I was told grown-ups drink red, but I realized that a crisp New Zealand Sauvignon Blanc is infinitely more refreshing. And by the way, visiting wineries isn’t a requirement either.
5. Other People’s Kids Aren’t Mandatory Favorites.
Let’s be real: our kids are adorable, but others’ kids? Not so much. They can be sticky-fingered and loud, and let’s not even talk about their lack of social graces. I recently attended a gathering where a toddler decided to perform a lengthy tap dance to live music. Spoiler alert: nobody wanted to see that.
6. Johnny Depp Isn’t Everyone’s Cup of Tea.
While I acknowledge his early works like “Edward Scissorhands” and “Donnie Brasco,” Johnny Depp lost his charm when he turned into a caricature of himself. Movies like “Pirates of the Caribbean” are based on a theme park ride for a reason. Let’s admit it: the quirky persona is less captivating than it once was.
7. Weekend Getaways Can Be Overrated.
The idea of escaping for the weekend sounds rejuvenating, but the reality is often a stressful scramble. Planning a quick trip can feel overwhelming, and by the time you arrive, all you want to do is crash. You might envision a relaxing retreat filled with gourmet meals, but instead, you end up exhausted and back on the road before you know it. And let’s be honest—most of us don’t really enjoy antiquing anyway.
In summary, it’s perfectly acceptable to let go of societal expectations about what you’re “supposed” to enjoy. Embrace your individual tastes, whether they align with the norms or not. For additional insights on navigating life’s expectations, check out this post on Modern Family Blog or explore some fertility options at Make a Mom. For more information about pregnancy and home insemination, visit News Medical.
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