When you ask a young girl under the age of eight about her favorite color, it’s almost certain that you’ll hear “Pink” in reply. Before becoming a mother, I never realized just how many variations of pink exist. This vibrant hue captivates their imaginations, seemingly without reason, harkening back to theories that suggest an innate attraction to certain colors based on our evolutionary past.
My goal was never to raise my daughter, Lily, as a stereotypical “girly-girl” obsessed with pink accessories, glittery cosmetics, and frilly outfits. Yet, on any given day, she is adorned in pink clothing—pink leggings with butterfly designs, a floral top, and pink beaded sandals gifted by an overly indulgent grandmother. Despite an array of colors available, attempting to guide her towards alternatives results in promises of wearing those “other” colors tomorrow. So, when it came time to redecorate her room, which still bore the remnants of its former life as an office with apple green walls, it was no surprise that Lily insisted it be painted pink.
“How about a vibrant orange?” I proposed, trying to introduce a more playful palette.
“I want pink,” she firmly declared.
“Maybe tangerine?” I suggested, attempting to evoke a lively image of tropical landscapes.
“PINK!” she reiterated, losing patience with my suggestions.
Decorating Tip 1:
When planning to redecorate your child’s room, consider starting the project while they are away—be it at preschool, a relative’s house, or a playdate. This allows you to make significant progress without the interruptions of their strong preferences. Children are often enamored with their revamped spaces, as even familiar toys can feel new against freshly painted walls.
On our way to the paint store, Lily announced her vision for “The Enchanted Garden.” This declaration hinted at her thorough contemplation on the subject.
Her older brother, Max, chimed in, “Do you want faeries in it?”
“Yes! Faeries and butterflies!” Lily exclaimed.
“What about a rainbow?” he asked.
“Yes, and a rainbow!” she replied, pausing before adding, “And a unicorn!”
“Maybe we can manage faeries,” I said diplomatically, realizing a unicorn might be a stretch.
Max, now caught up in the excitement, added, “I want a giant spider on my ceiling!”
Despite his own space being decorated with rocket ships and glow-in-the-dark stars—far from my intended aesthetic—I began brainstorming how to merge outer space with insects creatively and efficiently. “Mom, can you do a praying mantis?” he asked, further complicating my plan.
As for pink, the variety is extensive—ranging from hot pinks to soft pastels and whimsical names like Bubblegum, Ballet Slippers, and Watermelon. I selected three sample jars, hoping to narrow down the choices.
While the sample swatches dried on the wall, Lily entered and gasped, “Not that much pink! I want the whole wall pink!”
I attempted to explain that selecting the right shade required careful consideration of how different hues would appear in various lighting conditions. I often wonder how she perceives my choices.
My husband, a minimalist, advocated for a more understated approach. As we returned to the paint store, Lily was immediately drawn to a shade whimsically named Easter Bunny.
Decorating Tip 2:
Limit your child’s exposure to the paint store. The plethora of options can overwhelm them, leading to whimsically poor choices.
“Look, Lily!” I offered, holding up a much lighter shade.
She waved the Easter Bunny sample in my face, insisting, “This one!”
Despite my attempts to redirect her focus, I managed to discreetly swap the Easter Bunny for a more muted Pink Peony. However, the first few brush strokes revealed it was far too subtle—more like a wallflower at a vibrant gathering.
Decorating Tip 3:
Always begin with paint samples. Colors can appear drastically different on walls compared to swatches under fluorescent lights, saving you from a regrettable color choice for years.
After multiple trips, we finally settled on Ballerina—sufficiently pink without being overwhelming.
“But where are the faeries?” Lily asked as the fresh paint dried.
“Flying,” I assured her, confident that they would soon find her Enchanted Garden just as magical and inviting as she imagined.
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Summary:
This article explores the journey of decorating a child’s room, particularly focusing on the overwhelming preference for the color pink among young girls and the challenges that arise when incorporating their imaginative ideas into a practical design. The narrative blends humor and relatable parenting experiences while providing helpful tips for a smoother decorating process.