As I approach my 40s, I often find myself reflecting on the comforting influences of my youth, particularly the TV shows and films that shaped my formative years in the ’80s and early ’90s. Growing up, I was immersed in classics like Sesame Street and The Electric Company, and I spent countless hours laughing and crying over shows like The Cosby Show and Family Ties, eventually moving on to Beverly Hills, 90210. The movies that defined my adolescence featured iconic stars like Molly Ringwald and Ethan Hawke, and the lessons I absorbed from them remain with me today. Here are ten films I believe every child should watch:
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Embrace Diversity – (The Breakfast Club)
Each person is more than the label they wear. As my son navigates the challenges of middle school, I remind him that everyone has their own struggles, and it’s essential to look beyond the surface. As the film wisely notes, every individual is a blend of different traits, and we should appreciate those complexities. -
Be Exceptional – (Say Anything)
In high school, my goal was to blend in, but I want my kids to strive for greatness. Lili Taylor’s character teaches us that being a “guy” isn’t enough; it’s about being a true person of substance. I hope my children achieve their dreams, even if it means standing out. -
Understand Your Parents – (Back to the Future)
Watching Back to the Future was eye-opening for me. Marty McFly’s interactions with his parents reminded me that we all grow up lost and confused. I want my kids to know that I was once in their shoes, navigating the same uncertainties—even if they think I’m outdated when it comes to new math! -
Navigate Relationships Wisely – (Pretty in Pink)
In my youth, I had crushes on both Blane and Duckie. It’s a lesson for my children that it’s okay to have complicated feelings and that mutual affection doesn’t always align. Teaching them to treat others with kindness, regardless of their feelings, is crucial. -
The Power of Words – (Dead Poets Society)
Despite the digital age, the importance of words hasn’t diminished. Robin Williams’ character reminds us that ideas can spark change. I want my children to understand the weight of their words, especially in a world dominated by social media. Indeed, words can alter the course of history. -
Seize the Day – (Ferris Bueller’s Day Off)
Life moves swiftly, and it’s important to take a break and enjoy the moment. My son once pointed out that I focus too much on his mistakes. I realize now that I need to encourage spontaneity and adventure, just as Ferris did. Life is about balance, and we should all embrace it. -
Practice Politeness – (Singles)
In Singles, one character reflects on the importance of small gestures, like saying “bless you” when someone sneezes. This simple act of kindness is something I emphasize with my children, reminding them to remain courteous in a world that often feels impersonal. -
Cherish Your Uniqueness – (The Goonies)
The Goonies taught me that everyone has value. The heartwarming message that we are all “best inventions” is something I want my kids to carry with them. No matter how they show their individuality, they are cherished. -
Enduring Connections – (E.T.: The Extraterrestrial)
The moment when E.T. reassures Elliott, saying, “I’ll be right here,” resonates deeply. This concept of lasting connection transcends time and space, and I hope my children understand the importance of maintaining relationships, even when physically apart. -
Know Your Battles – (The Princess Bride)
Finally, the timeless advice to never challenge a Sicilian when death is on the line is a humorous reminder that there are some battles best left un-fought.
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In summary, revisiting these classic films allows us to share wisdom and values with the next generation, ensuring they grow up with a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them.
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