When my obstetrician inquired about our plans regarding circumcision for our newborn son, I instinctively turned to my partner, Mark. Being a woman, I felt it was more appropriate for him to lead this decision. As a circumcised man himself, he quickly replied with certainty, “Yes.” Great, I thought. That’s one less consideration for me.
Then our son arrived.
During a routine check-up, we asked the pediatrician for guidance on circumcision. He informed us that due to my son’s minimal foreskin, circumcision could lead to complications as he matures and experiences erections. Therefore, he advised against the procedure.
Mark had many questions, but ultimately, we decided to follow the doctor’s recommendation.
Upon returning home, we noticed people starting to ask about our son’s circumcision status, and soon enough, we were met with various unsolicited opinions and concerns. Now that my son is two years old and I’ve encountered these viewpoints, I’d like to address the four most common concerns and explain why they are largely unfounded.
1. Concern About Similarity to His Father
Some people ask if I’m troubled that our son won’t resemble his dad in this regard. However, Mark has dark hair while our son has lighter brown hair, and they share no physical similarities beyond what is expected in a father-son relationship. In fact, many say he resembles me more, with my nose. So, it seems rather trivial to worry about whether their genitalia are identical.
2. Worry About Fitting In With Peers
Others express concern that our son won’t resemble his peers. Interestingly, many parents I know have chosen not to circumcise their sons. Our pediatrician pointed out that more families are opting out of circumcision, which means that by the time he reaches high school, he could very well be among the majority. Besides, every individual is unique—no two bodies are the same.
3. Hygiene Concerns
Some believe that maintaining cleanliness is more challenging with an uncircumcised penis, potentially leading to infections. This undermines my ability to teach my son about hygiene. If I can guide him to maintain proper care for his hair, teeth, and body, I trust I can also instruct him on how to keep his genitals clean.
4. Consideration for Future Partners
A common apprehension is about how his future wife might react. Honestly, I prefer to think of my son as perpetually innocent, and I can’t imagine that when he does eventually become intimate, a minor detail like circumcision will overshadow their excitement and connection.
In summary, my son’s anatomy is private, yet due to pervasive curiosity, I want to clarify: he and his uncircumcised penis are perfectly fine, and I have no concerns. If you find yourself preoccupied with this topic, perhaps channel that energy into a more productive hobby.
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Summary
This article discusses the decision-making process surrounding circumcision from a parental perspective, addressing common concerns with evidence and personal insight. The author emphasizes that personal choices about circumcision do not need to conform to societal pressures and that hygiene and self-care can be effectively taught regardless of circumcision status.