Parenting Insights
I must admit something: I have become overly reliant on social media for validation. I find myself needing my family to publicly recognize that my children are the most adorable. I crave the attention of acquaintances from years past who might ponder why their kids aren’t reading yet while my 4-year-old is. I feel compelled to share countless images of my kids, flawlessly captured through Instagram’s most flattering filters.
What is it about me that prevents me from savoring moments with my family without rushing to document them on my phone? Clearly, this habit diminishes the experience. While it’s great to have a collection of photos to show my children decades from now, I worry that the only memories they will possess are of a camera-obsessed mother (“Oliver, I’ll trade you FIVE cookies if you can just smile for this photo with your sister!”).
Moreover, I fear my children may not remember a time before screens dominated our lives. It concerns me that my 4-year-old might see the world through the lens of cheesy online videos while my partner and I remain glued to our devices. I suspect we are missing out on meaningful family time due to our attachment to technology.
It’s time for a Digital Detox. I propose we disconnect completely for a weekend—no phones, cameras, tablets, or computers. For 48 hours, my family will unplug and truly connect with one another. I’m curious if my baby will even recognize me without that shiny device in my hands. I can only imagine how much more challenging my kids will be when I can’t tune them out with a game on my phone. What on earth will I do during those boring moments while breastfeeding?!
I have a feeling that my family is remarkable, and I have been overlooking it. My partner likely has interesting thoughts to share; after all, we didn’t rely on texting to get to know each other back in 2005. I bet my children are just as delightful, and perhaps I can appreciate their uniqueness without seeking validation from the Internet.
Furthermore, in the event of minor mishaps, we may actually find solutions together, strengthening our family bond rather than turning to Google for answers.
Once the weekend concludes, I can reassess my relationship with technology. Perhaps we can find a balanced approach going forward.
That’s the plan, and I intend to stick to it. I’ll mark the weekend on our fridge calendar—right after I check out this fantastic deal on a photo package…
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In summary, it’s essential to occasionally step back from technology to fully engage with our loved ones. By taking a break from our devices, we can foster deeper connections and create lasting memories that go beyond what can be captured in a photo.