I must admit, I have a strong aversion to homework. The act of completing it, assisting with it, and even the very concept of it can be quite overwhelming. I have a kindergartner, and yes, I know that may sound amusing, but he is assigned a considerable amount of homework.
The Weekly Homework Packet
At the start of each week, he receives a packet that must be finished by Thursday. The packet is filled with worksheets that often lack clear instructions, leaving me puzzled about what exactly the teacher expects. Additionally, he receives worksheets intended to be completed in school that simply say “please finish” with no guidance. Other than asking, “Jordan, do you remember what you were supposed to do?” how can I effectively help him complete these tasks?
More Than Just Worksheets
On top of that, there are reading books, poetry folders, and even family assignments. Family homework? I distinctly remember my own kindergarten experience, thank you very much.
The Exhaustion of Homework Battles
I might come across as frustrated, but I’m exhausted from the nightly battles over homework. It’s disheartening to teach concepts at home that were not adequately covered in class but are still assigned as homework. Both my partner and I have demanding jobs, and after rushing home and preparing dinner, we dive into homework. After that, it’s bath time, bedtime, and we prepare to do it all over again the next day. My son often expresses surprise on the rare occasions when we announce, “You don’t have any homework,” which usually only happens on weekends.
The Research on Homework
Moreover, numerous studies suggest that homework in early grades has little to no educational benefit. It doesn’t reflect genuine learning or progress; instead, it often leads to burnout. Our evenings are filled with arguments and tears—some of which are mine. By the time my son reaches first grade, he might develop a dislike for learning altogether. What message does this send to a young child?
A Commitment to Education
I am not against education; in fact, I hold a law degree, volunteer at our local school, and am deeply committed to the importance of education, reading, and writing. However, I struggle to understand how traditional homework, filled with worksheets and drills, benefits a five-year-old. And let’s be honest—many parents end up doing the homework as children progress through the grades, resulting in them missing out on true learning experiences.
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Conclusion
In summary, the current approach to homework in early education raises significant concerns regarding its effectiveness and impact on young learners. Parents often find themselves at a loss, navigating unclear instructions and unrealistic expectations, leading to an environment that may foster frustration rather than a love for learning.