As I approach a new chapter in life, I often reflect on the comforts of my youth, particularly the films and television shows that shaped my formative years during the ’80s and early ’90s. I grew up with classics like Sesame Street and The Electric Company, and later enjoyed The Cosby Show, Family Ties, and 90210. The movies that resonated with me starred iconic actors like Emma Davis and Noah Robinson, and featured plenty of vibrant hairstyles. Recently, I discovered that many of the life lessons I aim to impart to my children stem from memorable moments in these films that I can still quote verbatim.
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Everyone is multifaceted. (The Breakfast Club)
Even at a young age, my eldest is beginning to categorize himself and his peers. I experienced the same labels during my school years; it’s an inevitable part of growing up. I remind him that everyone has complexities beyond their appearances, and that no one can be reduced to a single stereotype. This lesson remains relevant throughout life. As another character wisely puts it in Can’t Buy Me Love, “Nerds, jocks. My side, your side… It’s hard enough just trying to be yourself.” -
Be a person of integrity. (Say Anything)
During my high school years, I aimed for mediocrity. Most teens share this desire to blend in, often viewing individuality as undesirable. I want my children to aspire to greatness, not to shy away from being exceptional. It’s essential to make the right choices, even if they entail vulnerability. May they have their own unforgettable moments of romance and bravery in the rain someday. -
Understand your parents were young too. (Back to the Future)
Watching Back to the Future as a child, I was struck by Marty McFly’s realization of his parents’ awkward teenage years. It’s crucial for my kids to know that I too faced uncertainties, and while I may not have all the answers, my experiences can guide them—well, most of the time! -
Unreciprocated feelings are part of life. (Pretty in Pink)
I adored the character of Blane in Pretty in Pink, as well as Duckie’s loyal devotion. It’s a complex lesson for my children: sometimes, you may not share the same feelings as others, and that’s perfectly acceptable. It’s important to treat everyone with kindness, regardless of romantic feelings—love cannot be returned out of obligation. -
Words hold power. (Dead Poets Society)
While we may lament the rise of social media and the decline of traditional bookstores, the influence of ideas and language is perhaps more potent than ever. I want my children to understand the impact of their words, especially in the digital age. Robin Williams’ character emphasized this timeless truth, and I wish for my children’s words to be agents of positive change. -
Take time to appreciate life. (Ferris Bueller’s Day Off)
On a recent drive to school, my son pointed out how often I focus on his missteps rather than celebrating his achievements. He has a valid point. I want him to embrace spontaneity, allowing for adventures and joyful moments. Life is fleeting, and it’s important to pause and enjoy it. -
Simple gestures matter. (Singles)
In Singles, a character reflects on lowering her standards in relationships, humorously noting the importance of someone who acknowledges small things, like saying “bless you” when one sneezes. I encourage my children to practice politeness and consideration, especially in a world that often distracts us with screens. -
We all have intrinsic value. (The Goonies)
The Goonies holds a special place in my heart from my own childhood. My favorite moment is when one character’s father expresses that he is his “best invention.” It’s vital for my children to know they are loved and valued, no matter how they express their unique selves. -
Connection transcends distance. (E.T.: The Extraterrestrial)
When I first encountered E.T., I was deeply moved by the bond between Elliott and the alien. The idea that we can hold each other in our hearts, despite physical separation, is a profound concept worth grasping, even for adults. -
Know your limits. (The Princess Bride)
This iconic quote reminds us to respect boundaries, especially when stakes are high.
In summary, these films are not merely entertainment; they encapsulate valuable lessons that I hope to pass on to my children. For more insights into parenting and home insemination, check out this excellent resource on pregnancy and home insemination, which offers an array of helpful information.