As parents, we typically have the chance to share about 936 weekends with our children before they turn 18. However, if you subtract the early years spent napping, eating, and crying, plus around 30 weekends lost to sickness and another 200 when they’re off in their teen worlds, you’re left with fewer than 400 weekends to truly enjoy together.
I’m not here to make you feel guilty, so let’s explore this. Are you and your family spending weekends unwinding, recharging, and engaging in meaningful activities together? If you’re like many families, the answer is likely a resounding “NO.” It’s time to change that to a “yes,” and it starts with reclaiming your weekends.
I had a wake-up call when a coach scheduled a two-hour practice for six-year-olds on a Sunday morning at 8 a.m. Seriously? What about families who attend church or the parents who enjoy those rare moments of togetherness over pancakes on a lazy Sunday? Not to mention those hardworking parents who finally catch a break on the weekends.
From that point on, my family made a conscious decision to steer clear of weekend extracurricular activities. We understand that this may not work for everyone, but we’ve found ways to keep our children engaged in sports and hobbies during the week. Our weekdays are already chaotic enough, filled with car rides, hurried meals, and last-minute homework help. We’ve had our fill of carpool dramas and late-night dinners. So, why continue that madness into the weekend?
If you’ve found a balance with weekend activities, that’s awesome! But if you’re feeling the strain of overscheduling, don’t hesitate to cut back. Gradually reduce unnecessary commitments and redefine what a fun weekend looks like. Fun doesn’t have to mean constant activity. In fact, some of the best weekends are those spent at home, where kids can hang out, ride bikes, and even get bored—because that’s when they often find the most joy.
As a parent who’s experienced the fleeting nature of childhood (my oldest is now away at college), I would give anything for one more lazy Saturday afternoon with my kids just lounging on the couch, bored together. If your weekends are packed and stressful, remember: it’s perfectly okay to say “no.” Reclaim your family time and enjoy the moments that truly matter. You—and your kids—will appreciate it.
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In summary, taking back your weekends is essential for family bonding and personal rejuvenation. Don’t hesitate to prioritize your family time over the hustle and bustle of extracurricular demands. You and your children will be grateful.