It’s high time we start accepting our bodies just as they are. Many women experience body image issues at various points in their lives, and this struggle often intensifies during and after pregnancy. After grappling with her own postpartum body image, a yoga instructor and mother of two, ages 20 and 9, felt compelled to honor her body and its unique beauty through a heartfelt photo shoot.
Jessica Collins collaborated with photographer Mark Foster from Expressions Untold for this empowering project. “When I looked in the mirror, all I could focus on were the flaws in my stomach. I let societal expectations diminish my worth,” Collins shared during an interview. However, when Foster reviewed the images post-shoot, one photo showcasing Collins’ postpartum stomach resonated deeply with her.
“Here I am… embracing my 20 years of motherhood,” Collins wrote when she posted her photo online. “For years, I viewed this as a burden. But over the last two years, I’ve embarked on a journey of self-acceptance, connecting with my true self. I refuse to let societal standards dictate who I am. I confidently wear my bikini and do handstands at the beach because I celebrate myself. The unrealistic imagery pushed by society no longer has power over me.”
This message is powerful. According to the National Eating Disorders Organization, between 40-60% of young girls (ages 6-12) worry about their weight. This alarming statistic highlights the pressure our children face, growing up in a world that imposes unrealistic body standards.
“I want women to love and embrace themselves, focusing on their strengths rather than their perceived shortcomings. Society needs to broaden its definition of normal and diverse. Images like mine in the media give women the freedom to be their authentic selves without compromising who they are,” Collins explained. “Imagine how many years of self-doubt I could have sidestepped if I had seen bodies like mine represented in the media.”
We are constantly inundated with images in magazines and on social media suggesting we are not “enough” unless we fit a particular mold. Once we have children, the pressure to return to our pre-baby bodies within weeks can be overwhelming. But whose timeline are we adhering to? Why do we continue to let others dictate how we should perceive our bodies?
“Enough is enough,” Collins declared. “I have a story worth sharing, and people are ready to listen.” Indeed, Jessica, your voice is powerful and resonates with many.
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In conclusion, it’s essential to embrace your body, celebrate your journey, and reject the unrealistic standards society imposes on us.