As a mom classified as “advanced maternal age,” or AMA, I find myself reflecting on what this label really signifies. This term, which applies to mothers aged 35 and older, feels particularly relevant as I navigate the joys and challenges of parenting at 50, having welcomed twin toddlers into my life.
Being an older mom has its quirks. For starters, I’ve come to terms with the fact that my body no longer performs acrobatics like it used to. Recently, while my sons were showing off their impressive somersaults, I felt a silly urge to join them. What followed was a painful reminder that I’m not as spry as I once was—let’s just say my neck made some alarming noises that hinted at my age.
High heels have also taken a backseat in my wardrobe. Back in the day, I wore them daily when my daughters were small. Now, the idea of balancing on stilts while trying to chase toddlers feels more like a recipe for disaster than a fashion statement. However, I’ve considered a creative twist: perhaps putting my boys on stilts could slow them down in busy parking lots. After all, Tate did mention he wants to be a Disney princess, so maybe it’s worth exploring.
Hormonal changes are another reality of being an older mom. My skin seems to be in a constant state of rebellion—one side showing signs of aging while the other is breaking out like a teenager. Gone are the days when I could indulge in fancy skincare products. Now, I shamelessly borrow my sons’ baby products, like using Boudreaux’s Butt Paste on an unexpected breakout. Who knew toddler products could be so versatile?
Despite the challenges, being a mom of advanced age has its perks. Just like a quality pair of blue jeans, I’ve become comfortable and adaptable over time. I’m that cast iron skillet—seasoned, reliable, and able to deliver comforting results. Plus, starting motherhood anew at 50 with my twins feels miraculous, like fine wine that only gets better with age.
In this journey, I have come to appreciate the unique strengths that come with age. Motherhood transcends age and societal norms. It’s an incredible experience that deserves recognition for its depth and richness.
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In summary, being a mom of advanced maternal age doesn’t have to carry a negative connotation. It can be a time of growth, wisdom, and profound joy. Motherhood is a unique journey that stands apart from all others, filled with love and discovery at every turn.