“How can I give my child a cracker when that same size could pose a choking hazard?”
“How is she supposed to chew fruit without any teeth?”
“She gagged on a cracker, so she’s not ready!”
“It’s just too dangerous…”
I know that many of you feel anxious about introducing solid foods to your little ones. You spend your days vigilantly monitoring them to ensure they don’t swallow small objects, fearing the worst. This anxiety is completely understandable, and as a feeding therapist, I’ve seen it firsthand. When I suggest a piece of fruit or a cracker, I can see the worry in your eyes. I’m here to hold your hand and encourage you as your child embarks on this culinary adventure. Yes, it can be terrifying.
However, it’s crucial to differentiate between what is simply frightening and what is truly dangerous.
While I may not be a parent myself, I have witnessed the distress of choking. I remember when my aunt choked on a piece of candy while we were at the park—it was a harrowing experience. Thankfully, a bystander was there to help her.
Now, you might be asking, “Why share such a distressing story when you’re telling me to relax?” Here’s why:
- First, I want to acknowledge your fears. The fear of choking is genuine—it’s real and palpable.
- Second, I encourage you to take a first-aid and CPR course. Knowing what to do in an emergency can make all the difference.
- Finally, while choking can occur at any age, certain behaviors increase the risk. I know you worry about giving your one-year-old a cracker, but I’m far more concerned about a three-year-old running around with a bowl of grapes or munching fruit snacks while on the move.
If you want a simple rule to help reduce choking risks, consider this: Have your child sit while they eat. Your toddler can enjoy snacks, but not while they’re darting around. Preschoolers can pretend to munch carrots like rabbits, but not while hopping about. They can sit on a bench, your lap, or even the ground—just as long as they’re seated.
I understand that children often resist rules, especially those that we adults don’t always follow. Implementing a household rule might be a challenge in our busy lives. As adults, we’ve learned to eat on the go, but children are still mastering this skill.
Eating is a complex activity that requires focus and practice. Children need to learn to control their tongue and navigate food textures safely. If your child only encounters solid foods at 16 months, they won’t magically know how to manage them simply because they’re older. Mastery comes from experience, and with it, the risk of choking decreases.
This practice won’t always be tidy. Just as children fall while learning to ride a bike, they may gag or spit while learning to eat. But remember, gagging is not choking. While it may appear alarming, gagging is a protective mechanism.
Teaching your child how to safely remove food is as important as teaching them how to chew and swallow. An infant’s gag reflex is located closer to the front of their mouth, and it only moves farther back as they gain experience. So, if your child starts gagging on a new food, take a deep breath and give them a moment to work through it before rushing to intervene. Your calm demeanor will help them feel more secure during this learning process. Research shows that children are highly attuned to their parents’ emotions (check out the work of Joseph Campos for more insights).
I know the challenges of this journey can feel overwhelming, and I want to acknowledge how hard you’re working. Feeding can be anxiety-inducing, and you deserve support. Don’t hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or neighbors when introducing new foods to your child. Sharing this experience with someone can make it much less daunting. Plus, talking to other parents or consulting with daycare teachers can provide valuable insights. If you need additional guidance, consider reaching out to a feeding therapist like myself. Remember, it takes a village!
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Summary
Introducing solid foods to your child can be nerve-wracking, but understanding the difference between fear and genuine danger is crucial. By encouraging seated eating habits and allowing practice with textures, you can help minimize choking risks. Remember, it’s okay to seek support from friends, family, or professionals during this learning process.