The other day, I found myself in a bookstore with my daughter, Ella. I wish I could say we spent our time exploring various genres and exchanging thoughts on literature, but that wasn’t the case. Instead, we were there to fill the time before her precious nap, which translated into her climbing on every shelf and touching every book within reach.
A cheerful store associate approached us, inquiring if we needed help. Ella’s body language clearly conveyed, “No, thank you! I’m perfectly content creating chaos among these shelves.” As I cleaned up the mess left in her wake, I stumbled upon a delightful Valentine’s Day display. It was filled with charming books about the various kinds of love—parental love, sibling love, and even love between animals.
However, as I flipped through the pages, I realized none of these stories resonated with my reality. The love I have for Ella isn’t encapsulated in illustrations of butterflies or serene garden paths. When I picture our bond, I think of the tantrums thrown whenever I attempt to cross the street—a picturesque stroll through flower-lined paths seems far off.
So, since I couldn’t find a book that spoke to my heart, I decided to pen my own Valentine’s message to Ella. I call it “I Love You More: An Ode to My Life-Changer.”
I Love You More Than Coffee
I can still vividly recall the moment the doctor confirmed I was expecting you. I’ll never forget that day—not only because of the joy it brought but also because it marked the end of my coffee rituals. Do you understand what it’s like to wake up and forgo that comforting cup of coffee? Imagine if I took away your favorite toy for a day. You’d get a glimpse of that struggle. But every glance at you reminds me that it’s all worth it. And now that I can enjoy caffeine again, I love you more than coffee—and yes, even more than sushi.
I Love You More Than Sleep
Do you know that there was a time when your dad and I would sleep until 9 a.m.? We’d leisurely stretch, ponder our day, and even sneak in afternoon naps whenever we pleased. But then you arrived and transformed everything. Now, “sleeping in” means any day you stay in your crib past 7 a.m. I can’t put all the blame on you; I confess I stayed up late just watching you breathe as a baby. I know it’s a bit odd, but it shows how much I love you—more than sleep.
I Love You More Than My Dignity
I used to be a quiet, shy person, and I hope you don’t inherit that trait. I still remember running out of class in fifth grade because I dreaded reciting a poem. But that’s not the mom you know. Now, I’m the one singing “The Wheels on the Bus” with enthusiasm and acting out motions in public just to see you laugh. Your giggles are my high, and I’d do anything to hear them because I love you more than my dignity.
I Love You More Than Regular Hair Appointments
While you’re not directly responsible for the gray hairs sprouting on my head, you certainly don’t help! Before you, I wouldn’t have let my hair get this wild. Now, let’s be real—I spend more time making sure you look adorable than worrying about my own appearance. People probably think, “Who is that chic toddler with the mom in yoga pants?” But that’s okay because I love you more than regular hair appointments.
I Love You More Than Fancy Restaurants
There used to be these places where adults could enjoy quiet dinners and sip fancy drinks. Your dad and I frequented those spots until you came along. Now, we enjoy cozy nights with takeout after you’re in bed, and honestly, it’s just fine. We love you more than fancy restaurants.
I cherish you, my little whirlwind. I love you during your meltdowns, your refusal to sleep, and even when you poke my eye while naming body parts. While we may never stroll through flower gardens with butterflies fluttering around us, I know you love me back. Oh, and I love you more than that last piece of croissant you tried to snag this morning.
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In summary, motherhood is a wild and wonderful ride filled with sacrifices, laughter, and immeasurable love. Through all the chaos, the bond formed with our children is truly priceless.