“Everyone, just chill. They were only words.”
We’ve all heard this phrase, especially in light of recent political rhetoric, where a candidate boasted about being able to kiss women without consent and “grab ‘em by the genitals” simply because of his fame. Yes, they were “just words”—but only if you choose to ignore their significant impact.
The reality is that words wield incredible power. They can uplift or devastate, inspire or incite.
For generations, children have relied on the old adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me,” to shield themselves from verbal bullies. However, research has shown that this is a myth. Verbal abuse can alter brain function in ways akin to physical trauma. The emotional pain inflicted by verbal bullying—whether in person or online—has driven some young people to the tragic choice of ending their own lives.
What is verbal bullying? Just words?
It’s worth noting that it’s not only peers whose words can inflict harm. A Harvard University report found that parental verbal abuse can be equally as damaging as physical or sexual abuse. Yes, you read that right: the emotional scars left by hurtful words can be as serious as physical harm. In fact, the repercussions of verbal abuse can be worse than witnessing domestic violence or experiencing sexual violence outside the home.
What is verbal abuse? Just words?
Consider the impact of books. Have you ever read one that shifted your perspective, made you weep, or frightened you? Great literature allows us to traverse different realms, evoke deep emotions, and comprehend complex ideas. What are books? Just words.
Now think about Martin Luther King, Jr.’s “I Have a Dream” speech, one of the defining moments in American history that inspired a movement for racial equality. Many of us can recite parts of that speech, including the famous line about judging children by their character rather than skin color. What is a speech? Just words?
On the flip side, consider the oratory of Adolf Hitler, whose words stirred national pride and bred fear towards marginalized groups. His ability to manipulate language created a propaganda machine that led to unfathomable atrocities, all without him personally committing any acts of violence. But make no mistake: the horrors of the Holocaust were fueled by his words—just words.
Words can heal, hurt, inspire, or destroy. They shape our individual realities and collective society. So, let’s not trivialize the impact of language. Bragging about the ability to sexually assault women contributes to a culture that objectifies and dehumanizes. Do not dismiss a recorded glimpse of someone’s true character as merely “just words.”
Words are not inconsequential. They are potent, filled with meaning, and have the capacity to influence lives profoundly. If you’re interested in learning more about the impact of words and communication, check out this insightful blog post here. And if you’re considering at-home insemination options, you can find reliable kits at Make a Mom. For further information on pregnancy, visit the CDC’s website.
In summary, words are never “just words.” They matter immensely, and their impact can resonate far beyond the moment they are spoken.