Since the start of the school year, my first-grader’s reading abilities have taken a giant leap forward. He’s transitioned from being shy about reading aloud to eagerly pointing out every word he encounters and confirming that he’s read it correctly. Watching this transformation over just a few months has been nothing short of remarkable. While I never stressed about him lagging behind in some imaginary competition for developmental milestones, witnessing his progress is undeniably rewarding. I look forward to him reading independently and sharing some of my cherished childhood books with him.
However, as with any new skill your children master, there are some notable downsides. Here’s a look at the benefits and drawbacks of your child learning to read:
Pro: Peaceful Moments!
My 6-year-old has reached a point where he can occasionally immerse himself in a book quietly. This is practically a miracle! The joy of seeing him sit alone and read is something I can’t emphasize enough.
Con: Spelling Woes
While I’m thrilled about my son’s reading skills, they come with their own set of challenges. With reading comes spelling, and that means my early parenting tactic of discreetly spelling out words is no longer effective. Once he can decode letters, questions like “What’s ‘hate’?” start to ring through the house after a particularly risky spelling session. Time to start texting each other even when we’re in the same room!
Pro: The World of Books
Reading opens up a universe of possibilities for kids. I can’t wait for my son to discover his favorites, whether it’s the magical realms of Hogwarts, the adventures in Narnia, or even the spooky tales from Stephen King. I’ve already begun sharing some of my beloved movies with him, and soon, I can’t wait to introduce him to my favorite books as well.
Con: More Stuff to Manage!
The amount of items I have to remember to shove back into my son’s backpack at the end of the day is already overwhelming. Water bottles, homework folders, mittens, and some random toy he insists he can’t live without—it’s a never-ending list. Now, we have to add the library books he needs to return to the mix. Ugh.
Pro: He Can Read!
Reading is a fundamental skill that impacts nearly every aspect of life, and it’s also incredibly fun! Watching your child reach this milestone is exhilarating. It’s going to change his life in ways he might not even realize, both small and significant. Plus, it opens up a world of enjoyment for him!
Con: He Can Read Everything
Including the TV guide and Netflix titles. Gone are the days of mindlessly scrolling past kids’ shows without his little voice chiming in! Now, he spots every cartoon and insists on reading about them, which sometimes leads to wasting precious movie nights on mediocre films about a snail racing in the Indy 500.
As with many milestones—like walking and talking—I quickly learned that reading is a double-edged sword. Walking leads to running, which means running away; talking means endless chatter, and often, talking back. Reading is essential and a vital hurdle for your child to overcome on their way to independence. However, with the positives come some obvious drawbacks. Thankfully, that newfound “peaceful time” makes it all worthwhile.
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In summary, while your child learning to read is a significant achievement with many advantages, it also introduces some unexpected challenges. Embrace the journey and enjoy the quiet moments along the way!