Hey Guys Who Catcall Women: Can We Just Stop That Right Now?

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It’s a scenario many women are all too familiar with: a confident woman strides past a group of workers, only to be met with a barrage of whistles, catcalls, and unsolicited comments about her looks. In that moment, she has to decide how to react. Does she give them the finger and walk away? Does she toss her hair and saunter off, ensuring they enjoy the view? Or does she humor them with a playful response that’s clearly not sincere? Honestly, if she did take the bait, I’m pretty sure those guys would be at a loss for words.

I don’t mean to brag, but I’ve experienced my share of catcalling, and honestly, I’m perplexed by it. What do these men think they’re achieving by shouting compliments at a woman they don’t know? Do they really believe that a random whistle will ignite some kind of romantic spark? Spoiler alert: it won’t.

I’m a self-assured woman, and I don’t need validation from a stranger who thinks my legs “look good, darling.” I’m fully aware of the effort I put into my fitness, thank you very much. Typically, when a man tries to grab my attention in that way, my instinct is to remind him that I can handle myself quite well, thank you. But then again, that wouldn’t be very ladylike, would it?

Recently, as I strolled through the city with my 9-year-old, I was appalled to witness men winking, licking their lips, or calling out their “appreciation” for my appearance. One guy in a coffee shop even suggested he could “offer me more than just a cup of coffee.” I’m pretty sure he wasn’t talking about a pastry. When I told him to back off, he had the audacity to say, “I was just being nice.” Well, I wasn’t having it. If he thought I’d be flattered, he was in for a surprise.

Everywhere we go, women are bombarded with comments about their bodies. Whether it’s an unwanted whistle or a rude remark, women often endure public objectification. Men, if you’re reading this: catcalling is not the way to win a woman over. Trust me, it’s the least effective method you could choose.

One of my pet peeves is when I’m out for a run. I’m focused, listening to music, and dodging drivers who seem to have a personal vendetta against joggers. When a man honks and gestures inappropriately, it throws me off my game and makes my run feel dangerous. Believe me, when I give you the finger, it’s definitely not an invitation.

One day, I might just decide to call a catcaller’s bluff. Imagine me leaning in and whispering, “You know what really gets me excited, sweet cheeks? The thought of you doing my laundry and cleaning my house. Let’s go, hot stuff; my dishes won’t wash themselves.” Now, that’s how I talk dirty.

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In summary, catcalling is not flattering; it’s intrusive and disrespectful. Women deserve respect, and it’s high time that men understand that their comments are unwelcome.

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