This week, I decided to update my Facebook profile picture. I swapped out the charming shot of my two little ones making silly faces in their holiday outfits for a close-up of my business headshot.
Now, you might be wondering, “So what’s the big deal?” Well, let me explain: for me, this seemingly simple change was anxiety-inducing. I have always opted for family photos or images featuring my kids, with me typically fading into the background.
The reason behind this shift? I’ve recently been using Facebook more for professional purposes rather than personal connections. I needed my profile to align with my brand. Logically, it made sense, but emotionally? It was terrifying. The jump from a playful family image to a solo shot of myself made me feel self-conscious, vain, and overconfident all at once.
Before I hit “Update,” I even tried to find a way to change my profile without it appearing in my friends’ News Feeds. I didn’t want anyone to notice, comment, or even “like” it. Isn’t that a bit sad?
As I wrestled with these feelings, I realized just how unfortunate it is to be afraid of being seen. To worry that others might think I’m too comfortable in my own skin or that I’m proud of who I am—what’s wrong with that?
Ultimately, I took the plunge and updated my profile. People noticed, commented, and liked it. And you know what? It was fine. But that immediate, visceral reaction I had? That wasn’t okay.
As mothers, we shouldn’t feel ashamed of being visible or of embracing ourselves. Yet, it’s so common to struggle with confidence in our roles as moms. We’re constantly navigating challenges, learning, and growing. It’s natural to feel insecure and worry about outside judgment as we figure it all out.
However, confidence in motherhood—and in ourselves—isn’t something that magically appears. It’s a journey; you have to actively seek it out. You have to embrace it, knowing that it might feel a bit scary at first, but you will land safely on your feet.
Changing your Facebook profile picture might seem trivial, but it’s a significant step toward self-acceptance and confidence. So, the next time you see another mom updating her profile with a solo shot, give her a nod of support. Be the safety net that helps her take that leap.
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In summary, embracing our individuality as mothers can be daunting but ultimately rewarding. Each small step we take to be seen is a powerful statement of self-acceptance.