I Embrace My Kids’ Growth—Is That a Bad Thing?

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As a parent, I often find myself reflecting on a question that seems to linger in the back of my mind: “Is it just me?” And I quickly reassure myself that it’s not. Yet, I can’t help but feel different from many parents who post captions like, “I miss my babies!” or “Time, please slow down!” or “I wish I could relive those moments!” While I appreciate a good nostalgia trip, my immediate thought tends to be, “How far back are we really talking?”

I cherish the memories of my children’s early years, but I have no desire to return to that stage. Do I want to relive the sleepless nights spent watching my newborn daughter’s chest rise and fall just to ensure she’s okay? No thank you. I’d rather enjoy a good night’s sleep. And the times when my son cried for no apparent reason, leaving me helpless? Not exactly a highlight I want to revisit.

I vividly recall one particularly exhausting day when my son was around four months old. After enduring a long cycle of feeding, sleeping, and crying, I was at my wit’s end. I decided to take him to an after-hours clinic, bringing my three-year-old along as well. My mom had left me a crisp hundred-dollar bill during her recent visit, and I was ready to offer it to anyone in line ahead of me just to get some relief. So, do I long for that time in my life again? Absolutely not.

I genuinely love that my kids are growing up—what’s wrong with that? I take joy in witnessing who they are becoming. I love their ability to tackle life’s challenges and ask me insightful questions. I appreciate their developing opinions and interests, even when they differ from mine.

I’m thrilled that my son can express how he feels when he’s unwell, and that my daughter can aim perfectly for the toilet when she gets sick. Their ability to articulate their ailments during doctor visits makes life much easier. Plus, karaoke nights are way more enjoyable now!

I’m genuinely excited about my daughter’s upcoming third-grade year. I felt no sadness when my son started pre-K; his enthusiasm was contagious! Watching them embrace their journeys fills me with joy. I don’t see their growth as something sad but rather as a beautiful part of their lives.

At the end of the day, it’s their life, not mine. I can’t cling too tightly to something that doesn’t belong to me. I came across a quote recently that resonated with me: “To raise a child who is comfortable enough to leave you, means you’ve done your job. They are not ours to keep, but to teach how to soar on their own.”

This sentiment struck a chord with me, much like the words of Elizabeth Taylor: “I’ve never thought of my jewelry as trophies. I’m here to take care of them and love them, for we are only temporary custodians of beauty.” While the thought of my kids eventually leaving for college tugs at my heartstrings, I would never discourage their desire to explore the world. And yes, I still have the habit of gently jiggling them at night, just to hear their breathing.

As much as it may send a chill down my spine, I realize my role is to nurture them as temporary custodians, preparing them to shine on their own. They are, without a doubt, two of the most brilliant gems in my life—precious and unique. I can cherish them for a time, but ultimately, they will take flight.

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In summary, I wholeheartedly embrace my children’s growth and the wonderful individuals they are becoming. Their journey is theirs to navigate, and my role is to support and guide them as they soar into their futures.

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