I know there are moments when I might come off as a bit naggy—let’s just call it a friendly reminder—but let’s be honest, you have a knack for sidestepping certain chores. The trash can could be overflowing, but you’ll manage to walk right past it without a second glance. The hamper sits just a few feet away from your collection of dirty clothes on the floor, yet it seems to be invisible. Empty glasses seem to multiply around the house without ever making their way to the sink, and the list of tasks you promise to tackle just keeps growing (like that landscaping project you started two years ago).
But when I step back and look at the bigger picture, I realize that these little annoyances are insignificant compared to the countless things you do right. Sometimes, I get caught up in the daily grind and forget to express my gratitude for the amazing father you are.
If I could have designed the perfect dad for our kids, the list would have been ambitious. Patience of a saint? Yes, please. A knack for tackling hours of middle school math homework without losing his cool? Absolutely! I would want you to be the kind of dad who shares valuable lessons from your own upbringing, always making yourself available for our children, no matter how hectic your work schedule gets. I’d ask for you to embody the ideal man—someone who shows kindness by turning the car around to lend a coat to a homeless veteran, volunteers at local food banks, surprises strangers by picking up their restaurant bills, or stops to assist a motorist with a flat tire. And of course, you’d need a treasure trove of eye-roll-worthy “dad jokes,” because every dad needs those.
Although I couldn’t place that custom order, it turns out that I hit the jackpot with you. You manage to be firm when necessary, even though I know it’s not your favorite role. Yet, even when you set boundaries, our kids recognize that beneath that stern exterior, you are their biggest softy. They can feel your unwavering commitment to their safety and happiness.
You’re present, making family time a priority and always coming up with new activities to enjoy together. You teach them how to do small tasks, like baiting a hook, while also instilling essential values like hard work and kindness. You remind them they can achieve anything, and you genuinely mean it. You are their advocate, their protector, the one who helps them navigate everything from a broken bike chain to the heartbreak of their first crush.
As a mother, nothing matters more to me than the well-being of our kids. I can’t imagine a better gift for them—or for me—than the incredible father you are. There’s nothing quite as heartwarming as witnessing the pride and love you display when you’re with them. Knowing that someone else shares the same deep love for them that I do is invaluable.
We often overlook the blessings in our lives. There are parents who face the challenges of raising children alone, while others endure abuse or neglect from their fathers. I’ll never take for granted how fortunate we are. I’ll always make time to peek in and see you in action—whether you’re being the fun-loving dad, the firm disciplinarian, or the supportive figure they need at that very moment—and feel my heart swell with appreciation.
So, while your socks might not always find their way to the hamper and the sink occasionally remains a mess after your morning shave, I can overlook those things. Because dealing with those minor inconveniences pales in comparison to the profound value you bring as a father.
With all my love,
Jamie
Further Reading
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In summary, while we all have our quirks, the love and dedication you show as a father far outweigh any minor annoyances. I feel incredibly grateful to have you in our lives.