As we wrap up another year, it’s hard to ignore the overwhelming sentiment that 2016 was a year to forget. Whether scrolling through social media, chatting with friends, or catching up on the news, phrases like “What a disaster!” and “Goodbye 2016!” have echoed everywhere. It’s almost as if we’ve collectively agreed to label the year as a complete mess—“a dumpster fire” of epic proportions.
Yet, I have to admit that personally, 2016 offered me some valuable opportunities for growth. I took a leap of faith, leaving my job to pursue a business venture that truly inspires me. Yes, there were challenges and a fair share of stress along the way, but ultimately, this transition has been rewarding. I’ve discovered new aspects of my character and capabilities, and I’m excited to carry this momentum into the new year.
On a more personal note, I was fortunate to spend quality time with my children, especially during the first half of the year. Having my holidays and weekends free for the first time allowed me to fully appreciate those fleeting moments with my youngest. I even pushed my limits by training for and completing two triathlons! With a teenager now able to babysit, my partner and I enjoyed more evenings together. However, it’s impossible to ignore the troubling global realities that marked this year.
The contentious U.S. election served as a focal point for much of the negativity in 2016. Regardless of political affiliations, most would agree that this election cycle was particularly fraught. From Brexit to the Zika virus, racial injustice, and the heartbreaking situation in Aleppo, the year was rife with challenges. Additionally, we lost numerous legendary figures, from musicians like Prince and David Bowie to actors such as Carrie Fisher and Alan Thicke. This is just scratching the surface.
It felt like 2016 reawakened voices of racism and misogyny, with many seeming to turn a blind eye to the rise of bigotry. The negativity infiltrated our social media feeds, causing many to distance themselves from friends who held differing views, thus deepening our echo chambers.
A popular saying emerged: “What’s the first rule of 2017? We don’t talk about 2016.” But I believe that ignoring the past will only lead to repeating its mistakes. As philosopher George Santayana wisely stated, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” Instead of trying to erase 2016, let’s learn from it and use those lessons to guide us into the new year.
What did 2016 teach me?
- Division Only Breeds More Division: Shutting out differing opinions only deepens divides. In 2017, I resolve to be more open-minded and engage in meaningful conversations, truly listening to others rather than waiting to share my own perspective. If we can’t bridge our differences, how can we expect our leaders to do so? Change must start at the grassroots level.
- Recognizing Privilege: The suffering faced by so many around the globe—and even in our own communities—reminds me how fortunate I am. In 2017, my goal is to be more charitable and to instill these values in my children. Giving back through time, resources, and compassion can create meaningful change.
- The Fight Against Hate: The persistent existence of racism and bigotry is a stark reminder that our work is far from over. In 2017, I’ll stand firmly against it and encourage my children to do the same. I’ll teach them to be strong, intelligent, and compassionate individuals who advocate for kindness and justice.
When faced with adversity, we often discover our strength. Let’s remember 2016 as the year we woke up and began to recognize the world around us so that 2017 can be the start of something truly transformative.
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In summary, instead of dismissing 2016, let’s glean wisdom from its trials and triumphs to foster a brighter future together.