Why I Don’t Feel Bad About Treating Myself

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Let’s be real: raising kids isn’t just a little pricey—it’s a financial rollercoaster that leaves you gasping for breath. We’re talking about expenses that make you question your life decisions. Ever wondered where your life would be without kids? Maybe you’d be lounging on your yacht, or perhaps you’d have enough cash to rival Scrooge McDuck!

You see, if I didn’t have my two little rascals, I could easily imagine a life of minimalist bliss—perhaps even starting a quirky production company focused on ferret adventures. But alas, reality is a bit different. Instead of daydreaming about the future, I’m knee-deep in the costs of parenting: food, clothing, healthcare, education—you name it. By the time I finish fulfilling their needs, there’s rarely anything left in the budget for me.

This is why I firmly believe in reserving a bit of that hard-earned cash for myself, and I refuse to feel guilty about it. I work hard, and as long as my kids have what they need—including their allergy meds and that new action figure they’ve been eyeing—I’m going to treat myself. Here are 13 indulgences I’ll never feel guilty about:

1. Craft Beer: Honestly, if anyone should feel guilty, it’s my kids for making me need this!
2. Whiskey: Because sometimes you just need a good drink.
3. Wine: I mean, who doesn’t enjoy a glass after a long day?
4. Vodka: It’s mainly for my spouse, but still.
5. Gourmet Burgers: Shake Shack, anyone?
6. Beer at Shake Shack: Maybe I have a tiny problem here.
7. Movie Tickets: Sure, I’d love to see a film, but babysitters are a whole other expense.
8. Concert Tickets: Again, babysitter costs keep me grounded. #NOPE.
9. Pizza: More concerned about pizza nights than the booze, but it’s still not a guilt trip.
10. Books: Knowledge is power, right?
11. Library Late Fees: Oops, my bad!
12. Music: Essential for my sanity, especially with little ones around.
13. Babysitters: Sometimes, you just need some adult time!

As parents, we have enough to feel guilty about without adding self-care to the list. It’s crucial to carve out a little space for personal enjoyment amidst the chaos. After all, we need to save our guilt for the real dilemmas, like that unused gym membership or that bizarre movie with an over-the-top plot.

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In summary, while parenting can be financially taxing, it’s important to prioritize your own happiness as well. Splurging on little luxuries isn’t selfish; it’s essential for maintaining your sanity!