As the chilly season rolls in, it’s time for cozy evenings filled with hot chocolate, freshly baked cookies, and twinkling lights. Yet, despite the freezing temperatures outside, my sons seem to think they are on a tropical vacation, strutting around in shorts and t-shirts. Folks, I simply can’t wrap my head around it. Having spent over 40 years on this planet and more than a decade as a mom, I’ve come to terms with certain mysteries of life that I may never solve. Quantum physics? Beyond me. The allure of watching unboxing videos? A total enigma. But the real puzzler is why my tween and teen boys insist on dressing as if it’s July while snowflakes are falling.
Sure, they rarely complain about the cold, having learned that expressing discomfort in my presence only earns them my infamous side-eye. I’ve stopped nagging them about wearing appropriate clothing for the weather. If they get chilly, they’ll eventually make the right choice, right? Well, maybe, but these stubborn kids would rather risk frostbite than admit I was right about needing hats and gloves.
Honestly, it’s not even the ridiculous attire that gets under my skin—it’s the unsolicited comments from passersby. No, cashier, my son won’t get sick just because he’s coatless. It’s not how it works! If he catches a cold, it’s likely due to the germ-filled classroom he’s in all winter. And yes, Aunt Marge, I do buy my kids winter gear, but they choose to forgo it. I’m letting them face the consequences of their choices—being cold enough to reconsider their decisions.
And to the stranger who thinks they can tell me how to parent, my son is 11 and nearly as tall as I am. Forcing him into a coat is simply not feasible. It’s all about respecting their autonomy, after all.
One major lesson I’ve learned in parenting is to choose my battles wisely, and this isn’t one I’m willing to fight. So here we are, in mid-30s weather with frost on the ground and snow in the forecast, while my sons remain in their summer outfits. I have to resist the urge to remind them to dress appropriately, focusing instead on more important matters—like exploring helpful resources on pregnancy and home insemination, which you can find at the CDC’s excellent guide on infertility.
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In summary, while my sons may choose to brave the cold in shorts and t-shirts, I’ve decided that it’s a battle I’m not going to fight. They’ll learn in their own time, and I’ll focus on more pressing matters—like staying warm myself!
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