When it comes to the conversation around childbirth, there’s often a misguided narrative that suggests cesarean births aren’t “real” births. New mom, Lisa Thompson, recently took to social media to share her c-section scar, passionately rebutting this notion. “I had a massive fibroid pressing on my cervix and a low-lying placenta, which means my c-section wasn’t typical. But regardless of how it happened, I gave birth to my baby,” she stated. “Before you judge someone’s birthing method, pause to consider the circumstances. Most women would choose differently if they had the option—no one wants major surgery and weeks of recovery!”
She raises an excellent point.
If you’ve had a c-section, know this: you are incredible. It might not have crossed your mind, but there’s no need to downplay your experience. Society often teaches mothers that what they do isn’t remarkable—especially when it comes to childbirth. You might feel pressure to brush off your fears or trauma, or you may have been labeled as a “martyr” for expressing any discomfort. But let’s put that aside.
You don’t need to have a dramatic scar to acknowledge the monumental challenge you’ve faced. Here’s a reminder of what you’ve accomplished:
- You’ve endured the fear of a needle piercing your spine.
- You’ve stared at a sterile surgical sheet, fully aware that your organs were exposed, all while holding your breath, waiting for that first cry from your baby.
- You’ve lain on an operating table, trembling, yet focusing on the new life being brought into the world.
- You’ve been wheeled into recovery, anxiously awaiting the return of feeling in your legs while also needing to care for your newborn.
- You’ve summoned the strength to move, using muscles that have been cut through, just to hold and feed your child.
- You’ve pushed through the pain of a fresh incision, determined to take those first steps home with your baby.
- You managed your pain with just over-the-counter medication, despite the monumental nature of your surgery.
- You returned home with your newborn, responding to her needs every three hours, even when climbing out of bed felt like climbing a mountain.
- You’ve shed tears, grappling with the intensity of your experience.
- You’ve felt guilt for your struggles, especially when you have a new life depending on you.
- You’ve downplayed the seriousness of your surgery to ease your partner’s concerns.
- You’ve faced the daunting prospect of looking at your scar.
You’ve been through so much, and guess what? You’re a badass. It’s time to recognize that. It’s perfectly okay to feel proud of what you’ve accomplished, to acknowledge the pain, and to wish for a different recovery experience while caring for a newborn.
Dear c-section mom, if no one has told you lately, you’re truly remarkable.
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In summary, c-section moms, embrace your strength, share your story, and know that your experience is valid and powerful.
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