In the realm of parenting honesty, mom and writer Julia Brooks has a knack for cutting through the noise. From sharing the struggles of being a stay-at-home mom to embracing our post-baby bodies, Brooks consistently delivers real talk about the complexities of motherhood. In her latest heartfelt Facebook post, she expressed profound gratitude to her friends who don’t have children: “Thank you for caring about my kids.”
“You show up to my kids’ birthday celebrations, not because you have to, but because you genuinely want to be there.” Let’s face it—most of the time, we’re not even thrilled about attending our own children’s parties. They can be chaotic, noisy, and a little overwhelming. When our childless friends make the effort to come, often bringing a thoughtful gift, it’s clear that their presence is about more than just cake; it’s about connection. We appreciate your time, even if we’re often too preoccupied to say it while managing a gaggle of rowdy children.
“You join me at family-friendly restaurants, blissfully munching on curly fries while my kids are busy playing with your phone or accidentally knocking over your drink—when you could be enjoying a night out in the company of hip friends.”
Meeting with a friend who doesn’t have kids often feels like a refreshing escape from the daily grind of parenting. Julia perfectly captures this sentiment: “You share fascinating stories and inspire me with your updates on life’s adventures.” It’s incredibly refreshing to hear about experiences beyond the current obsession with the latest video games or school drama.
Brooks also recognizes the bittersweet feelings some of her friends may have, especially those who longed for children of their own but faced challenges. “Some of you wished for kids but instead of harboring jealousy, you pour your love into mine, embracing them wholeheartedly.”
Too often, messages aimed at those without children come loaded with judgment about not understanding true love or exhaustion. However, Brooks’ message is a sincere appreciation for those who, despite not being parents, enrich our lives and our children’s lives.
“I can’t recall a time before having kids when I would have graciously sacrificed a Saturday night to engage in a game of Twister on the kitchen floor with a friend’s child.” To all our childfree friends who love and support us and our families—thank you. We truly couldn’t navigate this parenting journey without you, and yes, we’ll happily cover the cleaning bill for that shirt.
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In summary, this heartfelt message from Julia Brooks serves as a reminder of the invaluable role childfree friends play in the lives of parents. Their willingness to engage, support, and care for our children enriches our parenting experience and strengthens the bonds of friendship.
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