As parents, we often find ourselves questioning our choices on discipline. A common query is at what age should we cease spanking? My response: from day one. Allow me to share my journey.
Growing up, I experienced spanking, but it was infrequent and controlled. My father employed it between the ages of 4 to 10, explaining his reasoning beforehand. He never acted out of anger and always aimed for a sting, not a bruise. His focus was on my buttocks, always with a clear purpose, ensuring I never felt like a “bad kid.”
When my wife and I were preparing for parenthood, we revisited this topic. She had a similar upbringing, and we were inclined to follow the same path with our kids. We believed that sometimes, it was necessary to grab a child’s attention.
However, just moments after our son was born, my wife looked me straight in the eyes and declared, “You’re never going to touch this child.” The post-birth hormones were flowing, but she was serious.
And so, we shifted our approach. It took more creativity and effort to discipline without resorting to spanking, but looking back, that challenge became a positive aspect of our parenting journey. After five children (though not all are fully grown yet), I can’t say it has been markedly easier or tougher. There were moments of temptation, but we held firm. The outcomes align with what research suggests: avoiding physical discipline is beneficial.
Don’t hit your kids — it’s for the best. For further insights on parenting and discipline, check out this post on Cervical Insemination. If you’re considering at-home insemination, you might find Make A Mom a reliable source for syringe kits. Additionally, the CDC offers excellent resources on pregnancy and home insemination.
In short, parenting is a journey that demands adaptability. Embracing non-violent discipline can foster a more positive relationship with your children.
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