This past weekend, I experienced something more elusive than a good night’s sleep with a toddler in the house. Seven of my closest mom friends and I managed to escape our daily routines for a much-needed getaway. Sure, the “escape” was only a short 15-minute drive to a hotel downtown, but it was a breath of fresh air nonetheless.
Since becoming a mom 18 months ago, I’ve formed a tight-knit circle of mom friends who have become my support system. These incredible women are my go-to crew when my toddler’s antics push me to the edge. From sleepless nights to toddler meltdowns, they’ve been there to provide comfort and camaraderie when I’m feeling overwhelmed.
Being a stay-at-home mom can be isolating, which makes having a network of fellow moms essential. They don’t judge my nightly glass of wine or my guilty pleasure for binge-watching reality TV. Whether I’m letting my kid cry it out because I’m too exhausted to cope or allowing her to survive on a diet of cheese and bananas, they’re always there to reassure me that it’s okay. While we see each other weekly, none of us have had a full night away—until now.
We planned this escape for months, and miraculously, everyone could join for at least one night.
Now, you might expect this to turn into a wild story akin to a scene from Bad Moms, with us tearing up the town and enjoying cocktails with outrageous names. But if that’s what you’re hoping for, you might be in for a surprise. The weekend turned out to be everything we needed, and despite our frequent meet-ups, I discovered each mom has her own distinct traveling style. Here’s a rundown of the eight types of moms you’ll likely meet on a getaway:
1. The Survivalist Mom
This mom comes prepared for any situation. She packs enough supplies for a month-long trip, including a first-aid kit, cleaning supplies, snacks for a small army, and half her closet. Traveling with her is a blessing, especially if you’re the next type of mom.
2. The Minimalist Mom
This mom arrives with just the essentials—a change of clothes stuffed into her handbag. She packed her bag in two minutes, likely forgetting something crucial and having to borrow it from the Survivalist Mom. Fortunately, her friend is always ready with extras.
3. The Ever-Mom
This mom can’t seem to switch off her parenting mode. She does thorough checks to ensure nothing is left behind at the hotel and reminds everyone to use the restroom before leaving. At dinner, she might find herself cutting your food without realizing it, and she’ll check in with home every hour.
4. The Fashion-Forward Mom
This mom effortlessly shows up looking fabulous, even in jeans while others are in dresses. She’s the go-to for beauty tips and always appears put together. Whether at the pool in a stylish cover-up or at dinner, she radiates confidence, making everyone secretly wish for a shopping spree in her closet.
5. The Organizer Mom
The glue of the trip, this mom has planned every detail. She’s responsible for the itinerary, crafts, and games, ensuring that everything runs smoothly. Without her meticulous nature, the weekend getaway might not have happened at all.
6. The Lightweight Mom
This mom is the life of the party—until she has a sip of her drink. After a couple of sips, she’s tipsy and full of energy. It’s likely her first break from parenting in ages, and watching her unwind is a joy!
7. The Overwhelmed Mom
The overwhelmed mom probably needs this getaway the most. She’s juggling work and home life, often arriving late and leaving early. Her overnight bag is packed in a hurry, not out of choice but necessity.
8. The Sleep-Deprived Mom
While every mom is a bit sleep-deprived, this one seizes the chance to catch up on rest. She can fall asleep anywhere and will savor her chance to enjoy a warm meal without having to share it.
The beauty of spending time with other moms is that, despite our differences, we share a common bond: the love for our little ones.
So, how did our weekend pan out? Well, we dressed up, enjoyed a fancy dinner, and then headed back to our hotel suite to tend to blisters from our heels. We relaxed with crafts and wine, sharing stories and laughter long into the night. Ultimately, those tiny humans we tried to escape for a moment are the ones who brought us together in the first place.
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Summary
In this article, we explore the eight distinct types of moms you might encounter on a getaway, from the overly prepared to the sleep-deprived. Each brings their unique flavor to the trip, but all share the common thread of understanding motherhood’s challenges.
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