As I stood in the grocery aisle, juggling a cart full of snacks and three active toddlers, I didn’t notice her approach until she spoke directly to me. It was Thursday evening at 5:30 p.m., and I was on a mission for bananas. It had been a long day, and the thought of another breakfast without them was simply not acceptable.
Then, I heard her voice. “You’re so fortunate,” she said with a genuine smile. In that instant, warmth washed over me. She was absolutely right; I am fortunate. For that brief moment, I felt a renewed sense of joy — finally, someone understood the chaos and beauty of my life as a mom of young kids.
It was such a refreshing change from the usual remarks I receive. Comments like, “Wow, you’ve got your hands full!” or the infamous, “Do you know what causes that?” often leave me feeling defensive and awkward. I usually respond with a polite smile, all the while feeling frustrated inside.
But this woman? She got it. “You’re so fortunate.” There was no hesitation in her voice; she said it as she walked past me, not looking for a response, just sharing a moment of connection. Our eyes met for a fleeting second, and without thinking, I replied, “Thank you.” Those two words came from a deep place within me — a tired, overwhelmed, yet grateful heart.
I truly meant it. It wasn’t a polite nod of acknowledgment or a half-hearted response. It was a heartfelt, “Thank you. I’m proud.”
“Thank you. You’re absolutely right.”
“Thank you. I am indeed lucky.”
She wasn’t expressing pity. In fact, she may have been wishing she could embrace the busy life I lead with three little boys who rely on me every moment of the day.
“You’re so fortunate.” Those words echoed in my mind long after she had disappeared into the store. Thank you, stranger at the grocery store, for reminding me of the joy and gratitude I often overlook. Yes, my life is chaotic, but I wouldn’t change it for anything.
So, here’s to you, kind stranger. You said the exact words I needed to hear. And for that, I am sincerely grateful.
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In summary, a few kind words can make a significant difference in a mother’s day, reminding us to cherish the hectic moments of parenthood and recognize our blessings.
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