I still vividly remember one July afternoon from my childhood in the 1980s. Dressed in my trusty pink sequined tutu, I scampered around the cracked kiddie pool set up in our yard, leaping over the hose that lay carelessly to the side. My little sister, blissfully unaware of the world around her, splashed joyfully in the murky water, grass remnants clinging to her chin as she giggled. Meanwhile, my parents lounged in their vinyl chairs, my mom slathered in baby oil and painting her toes a bright fuchsia, while my dad lost himself in a paperback novel.
On that day, my dad handed me a 17-cent container of iodized salt, claiming that if I managed to sprinkle some on a sparrow’s tail, I could keep it as a pet. I remember racing around the yard, my fingers tightly gripping the salt container, filled with excitement and anticipation. I didn’t catch a bird that day, but I did gain a perspective that has stayed with me—life is just a collection of moments. Whether it’s joyfully playing in a weed-ridden yard or waiting in a long line at a theme park, it’s the experience that counts.
While I understand that summer camps or daycare options are essential for many families, my situation is a bit different. For me, hiring a babysitter to watch my kids at home is far more cost-effective than sending three children to camp. So, embracing my own free-spirited upbringing, my partner and I decided to let our kids enjoy “Camp Free-for-All” at home this summer, a delightful blend of my guidance and the laid-back approach of our babysitter, Lily.
The experiences at a structured camp can certainly be memorable, but this summer, my kids discovered that those simple, relaxed moments—like lounging in bed past breakfast, digging in the yard, or crafting robots from old boxes—carry their own magic. Whether it was hurling eggs off the deck to see which ones survived the fall, or getting lost in a captivating picture book about Greek mythology at the local library, they were learning and growing in ways that can’t always be measured. They created amazing forts with sheets and tacks, experimented with traps to catch bunnies, and spent countless hours searching for caterpillars, all while using their imaginations to transform our home into an adventure zone.
In choosing not to engage in anything “extraordinary” this summer, my children experienced a wonderfully uninhibited and creative season reminiscent of my own childhood. These are the kinds of memories that can last a lifetime. I hope they will look back fondly and realize that life is about cherishing moments, no matter how simple they may seem.
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In summary, this summer was not just about doing nothing; it was about creating a tapestry of everyday experiences that my kids will remember for years to come.
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