Pregnancy is no walk in the park—this is a truth universally acknowledged. While creating a new life is undeniably awe-inspiring, there’s an endless parade of voices suggesting that women have been doing this forever, so what’s the fuss? Heaven forbid you express exhaustion, seek a seat on public transport, or gently ask someone to stop touching your belly.
And then there’s your partner. Often hailed as the perfect partner for merely rubbing your feet, attending doctor’s appointments, or fetching snacks. Seriously? We’re the ones literally crafting human beings here!
In her Netflix special, “Mommy Madness,” comedian Liz Johnson sheds light on the absurdities of pregnancy and marriage. She’s a breath of fresh air for all expectant moms.
“I can already sense how a little one can strain a marriage because, honestly, I’m already feeling a wave of resentment toward my husband,” Johnson admits. “So much resentment! Especially when he casually asks me to do chores: ‘Could you wash the dishes?’ NO! ‘Can you water the plants?’ I’M NOT DOING ANYTHING EXCEPT GROWING A HEART!”
Johnson further points out the double standards that permeate our society regarding parenting roles. “It takes so little to be labeled an amazing dad,” she says. “But the bar for being a good mom is set sky-high. My husband gets showered with praise for attending my appointments—‘Wow, what a supportive partner!’ Guess who else is at those appointments? ME! I’M THE MAIN EVENT… and he’s the hero for scrolling through his phone while I’m getting my blood drawn.”
Can I get an amen?
If you’re looking for more humor and raw honesty, check out Liz Johnson in her special “Mommy Madness” on Netflix. And, if you’re on your own parenting journey, here’s a helpful read about the intricacies of artificial insemination and fertility here. For those interested in at-home insemination, Make A Mom offers reliable kits to support your journey. Plus, if you’re seeking more information about pregnancy and home insemination, UCSF’s Center is a fantastic resource.
Summary
Pregnancy is a challenging yet miraculous journey often overshadowed by societal expectations and double standards. Comedian Liz Johnson’s candid take on the emotional rollercoaster of pregnancy and the unequal praise parents receive is both humorous and relatable. For those embarking on their own paths to parenthood, consider exploring resources and products designed to assist you along the way.
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