Tag: childhood trauma
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My Grandfather Was a Sexual Predator: Grateful My Parents Believed Me
Get Pregnant Fast There are nights when sleep eludes me, and my thoughts drift back to a significant moment from my childhood when I was just 10 years old. I remember visiting my grandparents’ home, which was five states away from my own. I found myself hiding behind the china cabinet, listening to the heated…
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Dear (Former) Mean Girl,
Get Pregnant Fast I hope by including “former” in my greeting, I’m being optimistic about your growth and kindness over the years. Anyone who grew up in our small town would likely agree on one thing: you were the most notorious mean girl in our class. From elementary school through high school and even into…
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How Surviving Childhood Abuse Transforms You Into a Stronger Parent
Get Pregnant Fast Like many individuals, I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. I understand how such traumatic experiences can shape your growth and impact your relationships, making it challenging to navigate life on a shaky foundation. However, it’s essential to recognize that being a survivor can actually enhance your parenting skills. Here’s how:…
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I Won’t Let My Mother’s Unhealthy Parenting Define Me
Get Pregnant Fast Many of you may have had the privilege of growing up with loving, supportive mothers who continue to play a pivotal role in your lives. I often hear friends reminisce about delightful outings and the daily phone calls filled with laughter and life advice. However, I know there are others, like myself,…
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Breaking the Cycle of Parental Anger with My Firstborn
Get Pregnant Fast Tonight, I find myself in a familiar yet unsettling position—I couldn’t put my oldest to bed. The thought of him starting school tomorrow, facing the world without me, brought tears to my eyes. So, I swapped bedtime duties with his father. Typically, I scroll past online posts from moms shedding tears over…
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What I Would Have Shared With My Younger Self After Experiencing Sexual Abuse
Get Pregnant Fast Dear Little One, If only I could wrap you in a warm embrace right now. Your life feels like it’s been turned upside down, and you’re lost in confusion. Coming from a protective home, you have no idea what has just happened to you. You’ve been violated—not just once, but repeatedly. Your…