Tag: personal growth
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A Few More Augusts: Reflections on Growth and Change
Get Pregnant Fast Shopping for shoes with my two young boys has always been a daunting challenge. I usually postpone it until the last minute, just a week before school begins. Convincing them to try on shoes often feels like pulling teeth. Once they do, it’s a chorus of complaints about fit, discomfort, and pesky…
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Becoming Invisible: Reflections on Motherhood
Get Pregnant Fast When my father was just a few months younger than I am now, he planned a surprise birthday bash for my mother. She was turning thirty, a milestone that, while she didn’t particularly celebrate, marked a significant shift in life. My father, who was more invested in such occasions, wanted to create…
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6 Important Lessons I Want My Unpopular Middle School Daughter to Understand
Get Pregnant Fast Middle school is a tough time for many, and I can certainly attest to that. As the oldest in my family, I didn’t have the advantage of an older sibling to guide me through those tricky social waters. I often felt out of place with my awkward hairstyles, braces (yes, I had…
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Never The Same Again: Embracing Motherhood’s Transformations
Get Pregnant Fast A close friend of mine welcomed her first child just a month after my second was born. Since then, she’s been posting on social media about the drastic changes she’s facing as a new mom—complaining about her aching back and the struggle of carrying those stubborn extra pounds. She asked me, “When…
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Why I’m More Productive as a Mom
Get Pregnant Fast There’s a saying that goes, “If you want to get something done, ask a busy person.” I often tweak that to, “If you want to get something done, ask a mom,” because we truly embody the essence of busy. Before I had kids, I had an abundance of free time—entire days, weekends,…
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I Was A Sheltered Child, But Parenthood Made Me Grow Up
Get Pregnant Fast By: Emily Johnson Growing up, I was the apple of my parents’ eyes, the result of a seven-year journey filled with anticipation and hope. My mom meticulously tracked her temperature daily for years after my older brother was born, all with the aim of welcoming me into the world. I am incredibly…
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How I Attempted (and Ultimately Missed) the Chance for a One-Night Stand
Get Pregnant Fast After being involuntarily celibate for over two years—following my husband’s departure after three decades of marriage—I started to yearn for physical intimacy again. I wasn’t ready for a full-fledged “relationship,” which I had always thought was a requirement for sex; in my vulnerable state, that could lead to more emotional turmoil. For…
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12 Exciting Hobbies to Explore in Your 40s
Get Pregnant Fast Ah, the 40s! This decade often brings newfound freedom as children grow more independent, or perhaps even head off to college. Life tends to settle into a more manageable routine, making it the perfect time to indulge in a hobby that’s just for you. With your priorities shifting, it’s time to discover…
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When Your Mother Isn’t Perfect: Finding Your Own Path
Parenting Get Pregnant Fast When it comes to motherhood, my own experience has been far from that of a picture-perfect family. My mother isn’t a bad person; she simply doesn’t fit the mold of idealized figures like Carol Brady or June Cleaver. Growing up, she seemed lost and overwhelmed, perhaps still is. She experimented with…
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The Quest for the Ultimate Motherhood Experience
Get Pregnant Fast When I welcomed my first child into the world 14 years ago, I was ready to embrace motherhood with open arms. I envisioned myself as the quintessential mom, planting my victory flag atop the mountain of parenting, reveling in joyous moments. All I needed was for my little one to sleep through…