Receiving oral sex can be enjoyable, but many moms find the act of giving it—specifically in the form of a blow job—less appealing. As Samantha Jones famously said, “Honey, they don’t call it a ‘job’ for nothing.” The effort involved in performing oral sex often feels like hard work that goes unrecognized. Many moms confess to feeling overwhelmed and even disgusted by the experience, with some expressing frustration over the lack of reciprocity from their partners.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever heard a guy boast about never reciprocating oral sex—it’s disheartening. Many men seem to expect oral pleasure without considering their partner’s needs. Can we really be surprised that women are often not interested?
One frustrated mom lamented, “I hate my husband. He did nothing for me on Mother’s Day, but I know he’ll be demanding a blow job when Father’s Day comes around.” Another woman stated, “I’m a straight female who finds penises gross. Sex can be fun, but I absolutely detest giving blow jobs and wish I never had to do it again.”
For some women, the willingness to perform oral sex hinges on various factors, including their attraction to their partner, his hygiene, and how well he reciprocates. This screening process helps eliminate men who don’t deserve to be in their lives. One mom shared, “My husband refuses to go down on me—therefore, I won’t be giving him any blow jobs.”
It’s important to recognize that not everyone enjoys oral sex, and that’s perfectly acceptable. However, if one expects to receive it, they should be prepared to give it in return. Unfortunately, some men may neglect their hygiene, making the experience all the more unappealing. While women are often held to high grooming standards, many men seem to overlook their own cleanliness.
One mom shared her frustration: “I hate performing oral sex; it does nothing for me.” Another recounted, “I get so annoyed when my husband asks for a blow job but takes forever to finish. This isn’t my idea of a good time!”
Many women feel obligated to give oral sex, which is problematic. Husbands need to take note and improve their behaviors in the bedroom. Some women find the demands particularly frustrating, like one who said, “My husband ran me a bath and now says I owe him a blow job. I asked if he cleaned the tub, and he admitted he didn’t. No thanks!”
Another shared her experience: “I recently gave my husband a blow job and ended up spraining my neck. Middle age is rough!” The demands made on postpartum women can be especially egregious, as one mother lamented the pressure she felt just after giving birth.
So, men, if you want to receive, you need to be giving as well. Be respectful, considerate, and clean. Let’s strive for balance in these relationships, so both partners can find pleasure in intimacy.
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Summary:
Many mothers express their dislike for performing oral sex, often feeling that the effort is unreciprocated and undervalued. Factors such as hygiene, attraction, and mutual respect play crucial roles in their willingness to engage in oral sex. Communication and consideration from partners are essential for fostering a satisfying intimate relationship.