On my very first day as a college freshman, I had no idea that two incredible women would come into my life and profoundly shape it. One was a witty firecracker in my major, and the other was, well, another witty firecracker who happened to move in right across the hall.
Over the ensuing months, we forged a bond through the ups and downs of being away from home for the first time, along with a shared disdain for our Catholic school uniforms. We spent countless late nights laughing, sharing stories, and growing inseparable. Fast forward 20 years, and here we are, as close as ever.
These remarkable ladies have gone on to excel in their careers and become fantastic mothers. Although we don’t see one another nearly as often as we wish, they remain my core support system. In a family emergency at 2 a.m., they’re the ones I’d call, and I can confidently say they’d probably be right there next to me if I ever needed bail money. They are etched into my heart, and through the years, they have shown me the true meaning of friendship—without any of the cliché Hallmark fluff.
They embrace me as I am, quirks and all. On my roughest parenting days, when I call and confess that I need a break from my kids, they respond with, “Girl, same here!” Their love is unconditional, and I reciprocate that sentiment wholeheartedly.
Just as couples often renew their vows after many years, I believe friendships deserve a similar reaffirmation. Relationships may fade, but true friends remain steadfast. If you’ve navigated the highs and lows together, you’ll likely stick together through thick and thin.
So, here’s my pledge to my college besties and all the wonderful friends I’ve gathered over the years:
- I vow to never judge you when you vent about your kids being little terrors—because let’s be honest, they can be.
- I promise to always avoid inviting you to any gatherings where you’ll be pressured into buying overpriced jewelry or leggings in my home.
- If you’re having a rough day, I will gladly pour a glass of wine for both of us, even if it’s only 9 a.m. I’ll happily join you for some day drinking, so you don’t feel weird.
- When you’re upset with your husband, I’ll join you in disliking him until you’ve cooled off, and then I’ll be back to liking him once you’ve made up.
- I will always give you my honest opinion when you ask if that new outfit flatters you, and I expect the same candor in return.
- If you go through a tough time, I’ll show up with a feast and tackle your laundry. I’ll stay up late to lend a listening ear—whatever you need, darling.
- I’ll accept that sometimes our conversations will just be a collection of silly memes sent throughout the day.
- Your embarrassing moments, like that time you got too tipsy and had an accident in the bushes? I’ll keep that secret safe.
- Should anyone dare to speak ill of you, I’ll immediately defend you because no one messes with my friends.
- I’ll do my share of the carpool duties, even if I’m in my pajamas and late to pick up the kids.
- I promise not to cringe when you confide in me about your bodily mishaps. Trust me, I’ve been there too, and I won’t judge.
- If you have a passion or a dream job, share it with me—I’ll support you every step of the way, just like the loyal friend I am.
- I’ll gently guide you if I see you heading down a risky path, knowing it might upset you.
- When we argue, I’ll strive to see your perspective, even if it means admitting my own faults. I’ll always apologize sincerely when I’ve hurt you.
- I will embrace your flaws and remind you that they don’t define who you are.
- I’ll help you reconnect with the carefree spirit you had before life got in the way, reminding you of the wild and free girl you once were.
- I’ll always cherish how you’ve contributed to the person I am today.
- I will forever value our friendship, always referring to you as my friend.
- I’ll be here whenever you need me, whether it’s for a comforting hug, a cold beer, or a band-aid. Our memories and secrets are treasures I hold dear, just like any true friend would.
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In summary, friendships deserve commitment, just like romantic relationships. Through ups and downs, laughter, and tears, true friends stand by each other unconditionally, making the journey of life that much richer.