Hey there, new moms! I know you might find some of this tough to digest, but hang tight. My words come from a place of love—no judgment here. You may be feeling a bit out of sorts right now, and let’s be real: you might need a little reality check. So, without further ado, here are some things you need to hear:
- Step Away from the Screen: Seriously, put down your phone for a bit—especially that Facebook app. Your baby isn’t suffering from some rare illness you just read about, and you don’t need to see another horror story about a raccoon breaking into a house or a mom forgetting her baby somewhere. Life has been happening just fine before the Internet took over; trust me on that. Instead, call a friend! Most people online can be a little… let’s just say, not the kindest.
- Cute Baby Contests Aren’t All That: Yes, we all know your baby is the cutest little nugget to ever grace this planet. But let’s be honest, no one is going to vote for them in that contest, even if it comes with the promise of a scholarship. Share the link with your parents instead; they’re likely your only voters anyway. This will save you from a smidge of embarrassment. You’re welcome!
- Let’s Talk Hygiene: It’s true what a wise friend once told me: “If you think you smell, then you probably do.” Whether it’s the stress sweat or just not having the time to shower, let’s face it—you could use a little self-care. Take a few moments to pamper yourself with a shower. You deserve it!
- Feeling a Bit Off? That’s Normal: If you’re feeling like you’re losing your mind, you’re not alone. Being a new mom can feel like an emotional rollercoaster, filled with excitement, anxiety, and exhaustion, all while hormones are having a wild party. This is where avoiding Facebook becomes essential; it’ll help you keep your sanity intact while you focus on your little bundle of joy. Cry it out in the shower if needed; it’s okay!
- You’re Doing Just Fine: And remember, you will find your groove again—just not today. I used to watch other people in stores and think, “Will I ever feel like that again?” Yes, you will! You’ll sleep, you’ll enjoy a glass of wine, and you’ll eventually find that new normal. Just hang in there; it’s coming.
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In summary, new moms, prioritize some self-care, embrace the chaos, and remember that things will eventually normalize. And hey, we’re all in this together!