Dear friends who are fortunate enough to have their mothers,
Life can change in an instant. Just ten months after my mother was diagnosed, we faced the heartbreaking reality of her passing. Cancer has a way of stealthily robbing families of their health, joy, and future plans. One moment, we were making memories together; the next, we were grappling with a fierce battle, ultimately saying our goodbyes.
I never thought I would lose my mom so soon or in such a devastating way. Her departure came suddenly, leaving me with a profound sense of loss and confusion. My faith brings me comfort, allowing me to hold onto hope, but this Mother’s Day is unlike any I’ve experienced before. For the first time, I will celebrate as a mother without the guiding presence of my own.
I will receive love, cards, and gifts, but I can’t share my gratitude with her in return. I can’t express my appreciation for the lessons she taught me about motherhood, both the joyful and the challenging aspects. I can’t acknowledge the significant role she played in shaping my life as a mom, a wife, and a woman.
So, dear friends who still have your mothers, I urge you to reach out this week.
Whether you share an incredibly close bond or feel a distance between you, take a moment to connect. If you often see eye to eye or find yourselves in disagreement, look your mother in the eyes and tell her how much she means to you.
If your relationship has been filled with warmth or has had its share of struggles, express your appreciation for her presence in your life. Regardless of how you view her parenting—whether as an ideal role model or as someone who taught you what to avoid—acknowledge the lessons learned.
Whether she’s been a phenomenal mother or has faced challenges, she is still here, and that alone holds immense potential for growth and connection. Call her, embrace her, and envelop her with your love, even if it carries some baggage.
Seek reconciliation if you’re estranged, make compromises if you feel indifferent, and offer your time and attention if you’re caught up in the rush of life. Show affection if you tend to hold back, and express generous love even if you already do so regularly.
Last year at this time, I couldn’t have imagined spending Mother’s Day without my mom. Don’t allow another moment to pass without reaching out to yours.
Happy Mother’s Day to you all. May you find the grace to give and receive love abundantly.
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Summary: This heartfelt message encourages friends with living mothers to cherish their relationships. It emphasizes taking the time to connect, express gratitude, and appreciate the lessons learned from their mothers, especially on Mother’s Day.