In this journey of motherhood, we come in various forms, shaped by our unique experiences, beliefs, and circumstances. Contrary to what our children might think, we’re not born with the title of “mother.” Our wisdom doesn’t come wrapped in a pretty package; instead, it’s gathered through observation, resilience, and life’s challenges. We stand at the forefront of parenting. Some of us are protective, while others maintain a more distant approach. Regardless of how we choose to parent, we face scrutiny, admiration, and sometimes criticism. Yet, amidst it all, we are loved—though perhaps not as deeply as the love we give.
We are a mosaic of identities—single, married, divorced, LGBTQ+, and straight. We embody perfection and imperfection; we are both fierce and gentle. We keep therapists busy and act as unlicensed doctors, eternally ready to heal wounds and mend hearts. We serve as cheerleaders, disciplinarians, visionaries, companions, cooks, and detectives. We learn from life and teach whatever challenges may arise.
Whether we work from home or commute to an office, our roles are demanding, and our days feel fleeting. Our financial circumstances may vary, but the value of our work remains the same. It cannot be purchased in stores, yet it enriches our lives immeasurably.
Our motivations may differ; most of us nurture out of love, some seek recognition, and others simply rise to the occasion. Regardless, we possess the extraordinary ability to transform lives.
Together, we are nearly 90 million strong, bonded as sisters. However, we sometimes become our harshest critics, forgetting that we have each other to lean on. We are our greatest sources of inspiration, strength, guidance, and compassion.
As our children’s earliest memories—like their first steps and words—begin to fade, we strive to preserve those moments. We create scrapbooks, snap photos, and hold onto those cherished images in our hearts.
Some of us adhere to the belief that mistakes are inevitable, holding tightly to the wisdom of the past. Others argue that while we can learn from history, we must forge a new path for the future. Before we know it, that future will arrive; our children will grow up, and we will start a new chapter in our own lives. When that day comes, surrounded by friends—old and new—we will find comfort not in our differences but in the profound truth that unites us all.
We are mothers.
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Summary
Motherhood is a diverse and complex journey, filled with love, challenges, and growth. We are shaped by our experiences and united in our roles as caregivers, friends, and advocates. While we face scrutiny and occasionally criticism, we continue to inspire and support one another, cherishing the memories we create with our children.