In today’s digital landscape, my tween daughter and her peers seem to have their smartphones glued to their hands or stashed away in their pockets. While they’ve mastered the art of rapid-fire texting and nailing the perfect selfie, there are crucial lessons I want to share before they dive deeper into the online world.
- Duck faces? Let’s just say, they’re overrated. Sure, a couple might be harmless, but variety is the spice of life—please switch it up!
- I get that curating your Instagram to just a handful of photos is the trend. But remember, social media is a canvas for your story. Don’t erase your memories.
- Embrace self-love. Be proud of who you are—smart, strong, kind, and funny is the best version of you.
- Respect is key. Everything you share—be it a post, text, or DM—can be seen by anyone. No crush is worth compromising your future reputation or privacy.
- If someone pressures you into sharing inappropriate content, it’s time to say goodbye to that person. #seeyoulater
- Your friends are your lifeline. Treat them with kindness: compliment them, ask permission before posting their photos, and uplift them in comments.
- If you see someone struggling, be their ally. A simple like or comment can mean the world. Stand up against bullying. If you’re unsure how to help, just ask me. It’s vital to be remembered as a good friend, not just another scroller.
- Rating posts on Instagram? Seriously, why? Just stop.
- Your voice holds power—use it wisely. Avoid exclusion or untagging others to hurt their feelings.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels off, listen to that inner voice. It’s okay to pause, step back, or seek help.
- Participation in online trends is not mandatory. You are under no obligation to join group chats, memes, or anything else that doesn’t sit right with you.
- I’m always here for you. Whether you need advice, support, or just a listening ear—let me know. You’re balancing so much, and I admire your strength; you don’t have to navigate this alone.
- Mistakes happen, but honesty is crucial. You won’t be punished for errors, but lying to me will lead to consequences. Remember, I’m here to help.
- Focus on quality over quantity—be it followers, posts, or friends.
- Always remember, you are not superior to anyone else. While you are special and deserving of love, so is every other person. Treat everyone with respect, or you might lose your phone privileges. Seriously!
- And finally, don’t take life too seriously. A good laugh can change any mood.
These insights are valuable for everyone, but currently, I’m directing them towards my tween girl. A world of tweens engaging online with a bit more wisdom? That’s a world I’d love to see.
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Summary
This article shares 16 essential lessons for tween girls about responsible social media use, emphasizing self-respect, kindness to others, and the importance of trusting one’s instincts.
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